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Ages 20-29 / Re: Starting Now Limp to Rock
« on: August 02, 2017, 01:49:13 AM »
1 Week Done!
My first week of no PMO or MO is done, it's a really good feeling knowing that I am healing from some of my dysfunctions haha. But I've noticed I have a whole lot of extra time on my hands that I'm not doing anything because I'm not M'ing anymore, so lately I've just been watching hours of Gabe Deem's and Noah Church's videos.

Anyways, in one of their videos they talked about the importance of switching out your bad habit of PMO with good ones. This is really good because I've been interested in starting to do some new things. So I am going to turn this journal more towards how I am doing in some of the things I want to get good at, some of these are lifting weights (Over a year I'd like to achieve a     135 lb. bench, 95 lb. overhead press, 225 lb. squat, and 315 lb. deadlift), running (Run a 25 minute 5k), and become a better pool player (not sure how to measure this yet)

I'm really excited to see my progress with these goals, and if you guys have any suggestions for my goals let me know!

yeah... I don't get sexually excited at all either. I'm mainly just nervous lol. I've always found it weird whenever people say they get excited just because it's never happened to me but I'm only on day 6 of the reboot

anyways, goodluck

did you have PIED before? what hasn't changed?

why are you giving up PMO?

Ages 20-29 / Re: Goodbye porn, Hello girls.
« on: July 31, 2017, 04:24:37 PM »
why are you giving up PMO?

Ages 20-29 / Re: Starting Now Limp to Rock
« on: July 30, 2017, 12:01:06 AM »
Day 4 Completed

I should probably stop saying completed at the end of the days because it isn't really a challenge to not look at porn or fap anymore. I know it's only day 5 so it's not that long of a time but I'm feeling good.

The second I couldn't get hard for that girl I knew something was up and I didn't want that to ever happen again. Immediately after I started googling stuff and found Gabe's video, and that marked the end of my porn watching career. This forum is a really cool way to post my struggles with this!

Will post again at Day 7!

Porn Addiction / Re: Early relapse
« on: July 28, 2017, 10:37:54 PM »
I fucking hate dating apps lol. I guess it's cause I'm not that great looking and I always match with only fat people

Ages 20-29 / Re: Starting Now Limp to Rock
« on: July 28, 2017, 10:33:28 PM »
Day 3 completed

I woke up with 100% MW this morning. Pretty crazy that it happened this fast right? When do people usually start flatlining? Anyways, one thing I've found when my dick starts to tingle and I need to masturbate is I just need to pee. Kind of crazy that I thought that meant I needed to masturbate in the past...

Ages 20-29 / Re: Starting Now Limp to Rock
« on: July 27, 2017, 02:13:35 AM »
@retro- thanks! I'll look into that

Day 1

Just completed day #1 without masturbating, it was pretty easy, no urges.

I just watched a conversation with Joe rogan and Dorian Yates which was helpful in my case. Dorian who was a 6 time Mr. Olympia champion was talking about his lifting regimen which was very difficult, and he said that he wrote down his goals so he would of course follow through with them. He would not go against his own goals because things got tough and he would not miss his time at the gym, or his diet, or when he needed to go to sleep. He knew what he needed to do so he did that, I am trying to mimic his level of focus towards other areas in my life as well

Ages 20-29 / Re: Starting Now Limp to Rock
« on: July 26, 2017, 03:38:19 PM »
I'm reading other articles from people with PIED and I'm starting to get scared... I don't want to have to go months without being able to be with a girl, I just want to be normal when school starts back up which is in 3 weeks. But from what I've read no one has recovered in 3 weeks which fucking sucks.

Yeah, it was the second girl I brought back to my room that I couldn't get hard for that made me think "what the fuck is wrong with me?" and my brother told me about this site and I immediately gave up porn lol. I mean, it's pretty easy for me not to relapse because I already know the consequences haha

Wow man! You are working on a lot of problems all at once, that would be very hard for me to focus on keeping only positive people around, eating healthy, and exercising more regularly. But I guess not using P+M will give you more energy? Anyways, good luck on your journey

Ages 20-29 / Re: Day-1 of my 21 day journey
« on: July 26, 2017, 02:58:47 PM »
Good luck man! I started yesterday as well, I'll be checking in on this ! :)

Porn Addiction / Re: Can I still masturbate?
« on: July 26, 2017, 02:48:51 PM »
Thanks for the reply, I just started to get back into running so this'll be good! If I go on a run every time I need to masturbate I'll be a marathon runner in about 2 months lol

Ages 20-29 / Starting Now Limp to Rock
« on: July 26, 2017, 07:19:20 AM »
I am 21 years old and every time I try to have sex with a girl I don't get hard enough. One girl last week was literally giving me a BJ for like 6 minutes and I didn't get fully erect. I don't think I've ever been so confused in my life, I mean when I look at porn I get hard before I even enter the porn site... Just typing "po" into the address bar will give me a semi. So of course when it was time for the real thing I thought I'd be rock hard for hours, nope. It was a very odd time for me.

I have PMO'd 2-3 times a day pretty much since I was 13. I didn't do many sports in high school so most of my time was filled with porn and video games. It made me like a zombie, just bouncing between my house and school in a dopamine haze. After the time I mentioned in the first paragraph I called up my brother to see if he had any ideas on the whole thing. He said some of his coworkers actually were talking about giving up porn (I was pretty surprised by that because I thought porn was a taboo subject). So right after I heard it may be the problem I started searching around for answers on the internet. Found Gabe's videos, found Rebootnation, and here I am.

I gave up porn 2 weeks ago to try to fix my problem. However, when I read more from this website I learned that if you stopped masturbating as well you will recover faster. I'm all about a speedy recovery. But, that will make it a little harder because I get some serious urges to M about every 4 days.

But I am starting now! no more PMO, I'll post updates of how I'm doing on here.

Porn Addiction / Can I still masturbate?
« on: July 26, 2017, 02:55:56 AM »
I am two weeks clean of pornography but about every four days I get tingles all over my body that only jerking it can solve. I'm curious if this will slow down my recovery?

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