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Ages 40 and up / Re: Caught Again
« on: January 16, 2017, 02:30:49 PM »
As others have said, yours is a very moving testimony. I hope that this time, with the support of the community here, you manage to stay porn free and build authentic intimacy with your wife. I can see that the lies about porn are hurting you both and your relationship.

"man up" [...] I hate this phrase. Please use "toughen up" or "suck it up" or whatever else. Equating strength with masculinity is a falsehood. My wife, for instance, is way stronger than I am in many ways. Especially in the context you use it here. Yes, I understand that my use of porn objectifies women and is inherently sexist. Yes, I'm a hypocrite. Yes, I'm trying to change myself and the world around me.

This resonated with me. Part of what I hate about my own use of porn is the gulf it introduces between my ideals and my own actions. I too want to stop being a hypocrite. Good luck, and thank you for your openess.

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