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Porn Addiction / Re: Have you tried ASMR videos?
« on: September 29, 2017, 09:32:41 AM »
Precise: I will call you ignorant as many times as I want. And I will add that you seem like a horrible nasty person as well.

« on: September 21, 2017, 06:50:21 AM »
Sounds like you are having a difficult time, sorry to hear it.

Have you talked to your wife about your struggles?

Porn Addiction / Re: Have you tried ASMR videos?
« on: September 21, 2017, 05:54:53 AM »
Yeah they don't understand. It's funny how some people are so confident in their ignorance.

Sometimes it can help in the moment with cravings, just when you take your mind of it by choosing an activity to do. Instead watch an asmr video and the positive effects like feeling calm and relaxed help.

Porn Addiction / Re: Have you tried ASMR videos?
« on: September 12, 2017, 09:00:21 AM »
It works great for me. I am 12 days without pmo now. And it's the easiest 12 days I ever had.

Ages 30-39 / Re: New ways to deal with cravings?
« on: September 11, 2017, 09:31:44 AM »
Yeah, I am on 11 days now. And the horrible idea of having to start again at 0 motivates me to not fall back.

Porn Addiction / Re: Have you tried ASMR videos?
« on: September 09, 2017, 11:55:05 AM »
There is nothing sexual about it, and it doesn't have to be a woman. Don't dismiss something because of your own prejudice.

Porn Addiction / Have you tried ASMR videos?
« on: September 09, 2017, 07:56:51 AM »
It seems a bit weird at first maybe but it can really help with cravings, and it makes you feel relaxed.

Ages 30-39 / Re: New ways to deal with cravings?
« on: September 09, 2017, 07:55:14 AM »
Epic post RealityCheck!

Stay engaged is a good one and I try do to that simply by putting together a list of things to do every day and sticking to it.

Ages 30-39 / Re: New ways to deal with cravings?
« on: September 07, 2017, 04:42:52 AM »
That's a good one! Thanks.

Ages 30-39 / New ways to deal with cravings?
« on: September 01, 2017, 06:58:07 AM »
I find it difficult to deal with the cravings for pmo. Sooner or later it seems I will give in.

If any of you know of good ways to keep your mind of p or just a way to make cravings less, let me know.

Ages 20-29 / Re: No more PMO
« on: August 31, 2017, 01:15:22 AM »
Yeah, being busy helps me as well. Distraction can be a great thing to beat addiction!

Yes, it's annoying. Especially since the moderators and the administrators don't react to questions about the tracker problem.

Ages 30-39 / Re: Why is this so difficult?
« on: July 29, 2017, 02:02:15 PM »
Dont like painkillers.

I have found a video on youtube that helped me through it, I am on day 10 now.

Porn Addiction / Check out this video if you feel craving
« on: July 28, 2017, 07:42:55 AM »

Ages 30-39 / Why is this so difficult?
« on: July 24, 2017, 01:52:10 PM »
I am on day 5 of yet another attempt to quit. Already I feel I am going crazy, my head is beating and there are constant aches.

Perhaps you should ask your loving god why porn is here at all.

Porn Addiction / Quit cold turkey or gradually?
« on: July 14, 2017, 06:27:28 AM »
What's the better option?

Ages 30-39 / Re: New attempt. My diary Day 1
« on: July 12, 2017, 08:44:48 AM »
Day 3

Things are getting more difficult already. The cravings are there.

I am trying to stay in the right mindset, I Wish I could just detach (psychologically) from my penis :). Things would be easier.

Porn Addiction / Re: Anti-masterbution concept
« on: July 11, 2017, 10:15:31 AM »
To me masturbation isn't addictive, pmo is. Therefore I am not against masturbation except when you're rebooting.

Your body needs that release every once in a while, why else would there be wet dreams?

I am trying to get a tracker but it still doesn't work when I click the link. But some people have trackers of only 4 days old. I have tried on my laptop and ipad.

Ages 30-39 / Re: New attempt. My diary Day 1
« on: July 08, 2017, 04:32:25 PM »
I play as much tennis as I can. Running and fitness bores me though but I will definitely try to do those things as well. Thanks for the advice!

Ages 30-39 / New attempt. My diary Day 1
« on: July 08, 2017, 04:08:56 PM »
Day 1

I am giving it another try. The first days are always the most difficult for me because I usually start to feel better after a few days, so I feel pretty bad now and time is moving slowly. I am desperately looking for new ways to tackle this problem of pmo addiction so if you have any NEW ways of trying to beat this let me know!

Einstein once said "insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results" so I need to do things differently if I want to succeed this time.

Things I will do differently this time:

1. Update my diary DAILY on rebootnation

2. Having the right minset to succeed (post from maddream on Porn Addiction). Read that post every day to help to stay in the right mindset.

3. Exploring new ways to keep a strong motivation, because my motivation levels are all over the place. I can feel strong on tuesday and feel down on wednesday.

4. I have downloaded 2 apps for daily motivation quotes and reminders of the negative effects of porn use.

I will try to come up with other things I will do differently this time.

I will update this thread daily.

Ages 30-39 / Re: I give up
« on: June 21, 2017, 03:41:37 PM »
AscendingFire: thank you for your kind words, And yes it's not the same when I started to quit 6 years ago. I have made progress. And pmo probably 1/4 of what it was. I just have real difficulty dealing with relapses to the point of where I just can't take it anymore and that puts a lot of pressure on every attempt to quit.

Totem: I have had several years of therapy, but I have real problems truly opening up to a therapist.
I have been diagnosed with an avoidant personality disorder.

Porn Addiction / Re: Youtube Relapse
« on: June 21, 2017, 03:25:18 PM »
It feels like you are trying to find an excuse to fully relapse because you " did it anyway".

Watching non explicit videos on youtube is not a relapse.

Ages 30-39 / Re: I give up
« on: June 05, 2017, 09:37:39 AM »
KittyHawk: I am anxious, but it's easy for me to be around girls and talk to them. I just have difficulty when things get more serious/ intimate.

I try to be more active and play more sports etc but I still have too much time on my own sitting on the couch.

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