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Ages 20-29 / Re: Brain- you are weird!
« on: June 03, 2015, 07:02:39 AM »
Hey faceless void. Welcome to the forums!

From someone who is in a long term relationship (going on 7.5 years now) I can tell you that intimacy with your partner is considerably better without porn in your life. It allows you to connect on a deeper level and sex is much improved. I warn you that it will probably make you orgasm faster but it sounds like overall that would probably be a good thing. Good luck to you!

mybestself
Hi! thanks for the inspirational and consoling words mybestself. I hope i would be able to get out of my addictions and will be able to get a better grip over my life with my partner and i know its best in the longer run, to settle down in life or to achieve something one needs to devote more time chasing goals rather than watching porn. mybestself i do want to orgasm faster  :) Thanks for understanding hi5!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Brain- you are weird!
« on: June 03, 2015, 06:51:29 AM »
Welcome on the forum and much success in your journey!
I too am sufferly from (extremely) delayed ejaculation since I can go for hours without being able to ejaculate. I still don't know to what extend this rebooting process will help me with this.

ps: facelessvoid was one of my favourite hero in DOTA (the wc3 mods)! ;)
Hi! thanks for the support jnv. I would hope that rebooting adjusts my brain accordingly, all i know that we can keep believing and thinking positively, trying to get what we want and taking the correct steps even if we fail to do so but keep on trying. Its looks good when we say stuff but difficult to get it done. But let us just go through it with the help of a dear one. This forum is awesome but we all need that soothing contact to tell us that everything will be fine at the end of the day when the time is tough. I hope you do the same.

ps: i started from DOTA (wc3) and graduated into dota2 always thought of making big on the international scene but now i realized that i have lost a lot of valuable time from my academics and social life. Faceless void is awesome but can be easily countered ;D

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Brain- you are weird!
« on: June 03, 2015, 04:30:02 AM »
The thing that really got me to quit gaming was a realization that it wasted too much of my time and didn't really have a purpose to it, that being said I know some games that do have good storylines but even then it's in between killing tons of enemies, plus it wastes s lot of money (unless you go old school)

Your addiction doesn't sound too bad, I mean you can get hard and last for hours and you seem to get off on real sex, you likely could recover pretty fast if you stick with a no PMO lifestyle for a while you'll be good, another thing to note is that edging is a bad thing if it's to porn, but if it's to a real woman I assume it would help.

Hi! thanks for the support melancholy king. Video games is another form of dopa mine generator and given the human tendency to always go for a win makes gaming really hard to let go off. I started young right from the ages of Dave, the windows DOS video game. Have always been an enthusiastic gamer. Video games brings a different perspective into certain things. But story telling hooks you up to it, the adrenaline rush is just terrible followed up by the drowsiness. Now you get sexual content in every other video game, because sex sells. Its bad man, we really need to stop. I would rather create an Indie game than sit continuously on rpgs fps and mmos.
I hope my addiction is not so bad i have been watching porn from the ripe age of barely 11. Now i think i have gone too far and i realize i have desensitized my glans. I hope to be strong willed and get through this phase and into a much better and successful life. i screwed up my academics but i can bounce back hard. I will keep on writing about my journey may sometime bore with my research. I  would like to go with this in a fun way. Hope i can achieve my goals.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Brain- you are weird!
« on: June 03, 2015, 04:13:16 AM »
Welcome to the forum!

You are  right, it is not easy, but it always beats the alternative.

Keep reading and learning more and keep posting in your journal here.

Thanks for the support OneLifeForm. I will keep up with journal.

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Ages 20-29 / Brain- you are weird!
« on: June 02, 2015, 03:09:54 PM »
Hi folks!
I am 23 year old average non-hero. I am into technology and every good and bad aspect of it. I have been blessed with a beautiful soulmate which i plan to marry within a year, i am absolutely crazy about her  :-* This one time we are having sex and suddenly i realize that i am unable to achieve an orgasm with her. First i thought i am having a great sex life i.e. i can go on for hours at a stretch without having to ejaculate. (makes my partner happy) When i stumbled upon a post on elite daily about porn addiction where i was referred to ybop and finally on Gabe's video i was in a shock. I am having a bad case of DE  :( and also came to know death grip. Even after having sex i have to masturbate myself just to make my partner happy that everything is OK or else she doubts herself that she cannot satisfy my needs  :'( I love her, i can never hurt her in any case possible. The root cause of my problem is internet porn and gaming addiction. I am a DOTA 2 player, i am good at it but it is of no use, instead of learning anything out of it, its hurting me. I have dozed myself off to sleep after intense masturbation after watching porn. I still get an erection with my imagination. I do have a photographic memory. I don't really get off while imagining porn but for the real life situations that i have been through. Many things will come into my mind and i would be sharing them on this platform.
Please be patient with me it will be extremely difficult for me but i think love can heal every pain. Please help me get out of this phase of life and recover completely to start a normal life with my partner. Thanks a lot. 

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