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Ages 20-29 / Re: Day 77 - WHO EXPERIENCED THIS??
« on: October 14, 2019, 08:50:17 PM »
This morning, I woke up beside her and I had a partial boner. When she felt this, she started to touch it with her hand with my boxers on and only this made me cum in like 4 seconds, but I didn't felt it... Like my dick wasn't even hard, a big load came out but I didn't feel any orgasm.

I have had this a bunch of times since I started rebooting. I don’t have any answers unfortunately.

The only thing I can think now is that my healing isn't finished and I should continue my no PMO hardmode adventure and abstain from having sex for the moment.

I agree- based on the brain science on YBOP I’d say our brains still need a rest from stimulation. As frustrating as it might be I’d say carry on with hard mode. It’s optimistic to see results at 77 days but remember Gabe Deem was much longer. Around 9 months?! But it’s the best example and hope that any of us have to be healed.

My experience this far has been highs and lows in mood and libido but not really back to any where near normal. I’m not doing exclusive hard mode (long term relationship) so I expect to take longer to heal.

Sounds like you are on the right track- Carry on!

Yes I remember Gabe's story. So excited to continue this reboot and see changes! :D

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Day 77 - WHO EXPERIENCED THIS??
« on: October 14, 2019, 10:39:25 AM »
I tried to have sex with a friends with benefits around day 60 and couldn't get hard, you're not alone, it's a very shocking experience

Thank you for your answer.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Day 77 - WHO EXPERIENCED THIS??
« on: October 13, 2019, 08:47:38 PM »
Same here, except I was around 70 days, but I had nothing erection wise. Keep going my friend, you will see result with time.

Cool. I'll let the time do its job.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Day 77 - WHO EXPERIENCED THIS??
« on: October 13, 2019, 11:10:57 AM »
I haven't laid with a woman yet.  But for the longest time in the beginning of my reboot morning wood was nonexistent. Now almost 600 days in hardmode I have morning erections every morning and they are super hard.  Still no random erections tho... time does heal.

Thank you for your answer! Good to know I'm not alone.

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Ages 20-29 / Day 77 - WHO EXPERIENCED THIS??
« on: October 12, 2019, 12:19:58 PM »
Today, this is my day 77 on no PMO Hardmode and I do this to heal my PIED. I never relapsed and the process is very smooth and easy for me.

Here's some facts before I continue:
1. I dont have urges anymore.
2. I still don't have random boners or morning woods after 77 days on nofap hardmode.
3. I want to do no PMO for the rest of my life.
4. I never had a sexual intercourse since I started no PMO.

Here's my story. Yesterday, I invited a girl at my place and it was a first date. My initial plan was only watch a movie, drink some wine and maybe let her sleep with me (sleep, no sex). Of course, after the movie we got into my bed to sleep and it turned sexual really fast and she did the moves. This girl is 100% my type, she's super exciting, her physique is perfect for me and her vibe when she talks excites me a lot. I felt very aroused all night long BUT, I didn't get even one erection since the beginning  of the night. In my bed, I ate her and gave her orgasm with my mouth and fingers, but I didn't penetrate because my dick wasn't hard at all. At this moment I understood that my PIED isn't healed at all yet because it was the same thing I experienced before.

This morning, I woke up beside her and I had a partial boner. When she felt this, she started to touch it with her hand with my boxers on and only this made me cum in like 4 seconds, but I didn't felt it... Like my dick wasn't even hard, a big load came out but I didn't feel any orgasm. This never happened to me before because usually I am not sensible at all and I can last an hour or more.

The only thing I can think now is that my healing isn't finished and I should continue my no PMO hardmode adventure and abstain from having sex for the moment.

Please answer this post, I'd like to hear from you guys!

Did you ever experienced this?
What do you think I should do next?
Am I supposed to see an improvement of my pied after 77 days? Because I dont.
Why do you think this happens?

Thank you so much!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 23, 2019, 08:13:04 AM »
Day 19

I feel like i'm becoming easily horny for no reason in the morning and I even opened pornographic content. But I closed it after seconds because I could control myself. I'll try to be more aware of this because I know one day it could lead to PMO. Other than that, rebooting is going good and I'll continue focusing on my WHY.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 22, 2019, 10:08:16 AM »
Day 18

Another day without pmo. Nothing special to say except that my reboot's going great so far.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Sex while rebooting
« on: April 20, 2019, 01:47:36 PM »
From what I've read the first 30 days are advised to do no PMO at all. After that you can ad O by normal sexual release with a partner. This is what I plan to do as well.

Hope the answer helped.

Thank you for your answer buddy! I'll wait after 30 days.  :)

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 20, 2019, 01:45:58 PM »
Day 16

I went on a date at night and we got very horny but did nothing sexual. I had the worst blue ball syndrome ever (really hurting) after that but I just let it be and went to sleep.

Day 17

I've been sick all day with a strong headache so it was easy to not pmo on day 17, I had no energy at all. Everything's going great so far. Can't wait to make it 30 days!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 18, 2019, 01:59:35 PM »
Day 15

Everything's going very well! Woke up with a great wood that lasted multiples minutes after I got out of bed. No urge to pmo.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 17, 2019, 03:23:32 PM »
Day 14

2 weeks reached! Again, I had no temptation today and I still find it pretty easy. Woke up with a hard boner this morning, maybe he knew it was day 14 hehe. I feel I can go a long way rebooting without PMO. I'll let it become a natural lifestyle at a point that I won't even think about not watching porn and masturbating and it'll be just natural.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 16, 2019, 08:23:31 PM »
Day 13

I feel like i'm in a flat line state. Overall I feel good and still no urge to watch porn or masturbate.

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Ages 20-29 / Sex while rebooting?
« on: April 16, 2019, 04:01:44 PM »
Hi guys,

I would like to hear your opinion about having sex occasionally during the rebooting process.

The way I see it is, this is a natural contact with another human being, I stay away from superficial stimuli (porn, exciting photos, etc) and it is a way to recondition myself to real stimuli.

What do you guys think?

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 16, 2019, 01:33:37 PM »
Hey, best of luck with your goals. Sounds like you're doing great. Any tips on letting go of porn? Sometimes I find it easy but other times it has a big pull on me.
All the best.

Thanks buddy! I think the best way to let go of porn is to have a strong "why". Like why do you want to let go of porn? And if this why is strong enough and emotional to you, it will be easy to let go of porn. Just stick to your WHY. My why is so strong that it makes it really easy to not watch porn at all.

 All the best.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 16, 2019, 07:48:36 AM »
Day 12

Another day without pmo. I'm approaching two weeks. I still think it is easy for me to let go porn. Sometime I have temptations to only touch myself when it gets hard on a random basis but I can control myself easily and stop without problem. 

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 15, 2019, 07:01:07 AM »
Day 11

It was the biggest day of the week for my business and I felt very energetic and positive. Again, I had no temptation or urge.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 14, 2019, 11:35:44 AM »
Day 9 and 10

Still no urge or temptation to pmo. I'm still feeling very great. And I'm still finding it very easy to not watch porn or masturbate.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 12, 2019, 12:22:57 PM »
Day 8

Today I had a little temptation of touching myself because I had a random erection and had nothing else to do. I successfully resisted and did something else. Other than that, I'm feeling great and have no temptation for seeing pornographic content.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 10, 2019, 11:21:21 AM »
Day 7

One complete week without pmo and I am very motivated to make it a lifestyle. Today i'm feeling great, no temptation, no nothing.

QUESTION: I was wondering if you guys are eating specific food or taking specific health supplement in correlation with the rebooting process?

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 09, 2019, 03:23:15 PM »
Day 6

Another day without pmo, without temptation or urge. I never did a streak that long before. I feel good overall.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 08, 2019, 06:59:09 PM »
Day 5

It still easy for me to not pmo. I feel more attracted to women in public since I don't use porn sites or social medias. I don't have any temptation and everything's going great today.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - My reboot journal
« on: April 07, 2019, 02:04:51 PM »
Day 4

Everything's going well. No temptation. I'm feeling good. I have a busy day working on my business.

See you on day 5.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - 24 years old male
« on: April 06, 2019, 11:11:44 AM »
Day 3

Yesterday I didn't have any temptation to watch porn or masturbate. Before going to sleep I had a random full erection without touching it and without thinking of anything sexual.

This morning (day 3), I had a morning wood which I wasn't having before. I have no temptation again and until now it is still easy for me to refrain.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - 24 years old male
« on: April 05, 2019, 12:44:31 PM »
Day 2

I just came back from sleeping at my gf house, we teased each other in the morning so now I have blue balls but don't feel the need to masturbate or watch porn. Today will be a productive day for me, I have a lot of thing to do and I feel great except for a little headache (and I think it's just that I'm tired). I think it's a good start because usually couldn't hold myself and now It's been 2 days and I find it easy until now.

Question: for the blue balls thing, will it pass over time or I have to do something about it?

Have a great day!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED for 7 years - 24 years old male
« on: April 04, 2019, 06:13:44 PM »
Ive only heard good things about Karezza but never tried it so i cant really comment on that. Id say stick with it as long as youre not orgasming! Make sure you dont fantasize either.

Thank you! I'll do exactly what you just said.

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