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Partners of Rebooters and Addicts / A mans way to say sorry
« on: January 05, 2018, 07:32:46 AM »
I am a 61 year old male. I have been addicted to porn for twenty years. This past year it took complete control of my life. I could not figure out what was going on. I was always moody, I pushed my wife and friends away. Then in a moment of clarity I admitted it to myself. I went online to gather information, I was stunned, I had no idea. I told my wife. She was devastated, she had worked so hard for years trying to figure out my ED. I found a forum for woman to share their stories on how this impacts them. It was the lowest moment of my life. To see the hurt and anger that I have caused to the person I loved so much. Our relationship was loving and caring, there was nothing in me that would have ever hurt her and yet I had crushed her.

She could not handle it and has divorced me.

I share this because some men will see the hurt, the betrayal, the lies. They will see the damage done. If they do and if they can heal you might  have a man that spends the rest of his life making it up to you. You might have a man that finally lives to his full potential. You might have a relationship that goes to a level you never have seen before.

As it is I will just say,,I am sorry, I am sorry.

Women / A mans way to say sorry
« on: January 05, 2018, 07:14:47 AM »
I'm a 61 year old man, I have been a porn addict for 20 years. It effected all aspects of my life.
When I finally acknowledged my addiction I went online to start gathering information,,,I was blown away, I had no idea. I told my wife. She had spent years trying to figure out my ED. I found a forum for woman to share their stories, it was a devastating moment, to see the hurt I caused the  person that I loved so much. I have  spent our 10 years together loving and caring for her. There was nothing in me that could have ever have caused her to suffer, I loved her that much.

She is devastated and she has divorced me. My heart is broken at the loss this has caused me. I had no idea.

I write this now to acknowledge what I have done and to share with you that some men will truly see the hurt this causes, they will see.  And if  you and they can heal, if you can believe again, they might spend the rest of their lives making it up to you. To live to their full potential to love and care for you at a level you never had.

I am sorry,,I am sorry

Ages 40 and up / Introductions and story
« on: January 04, 2018, 08:26:45 AM »
My name is Greg. I am 61 and am just starting my journey to a better life. Porn has taken over and ruled my life for many years. It came to a head this summer when I completely withdrew from my wife and my friends. I couldn't figure it out. I had lost all motivation, my passion for the things I like to do dropped away. I stopped even trying to have sex with my wife. My penis was always sore and I had no libido. I was in the worse shape of my life. Lots of anxiety, moody and unhappy.

My wife spent ten years of counseling,doctors ect trying to find out what was wrong (ED). And I sat there with part of me knowing but unable-unwilling to say it.
My wife has divorced me so I have the double whammy of that loss at the same time as tackling this addiction. I have a sex therapy counselor and have just started last week.

I'm looking for advise and maybe a partner to go though this with.
What am I in for??? Does it really get better??

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