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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: July 24, 2015, 08:16:20 AM »
Over a week ago I finally had sex with my girlfriend and we've done it many times since. My goal has finally been achieved, performance anxiety no longer has a hold on me. I have reboot nation to thank for giving me the motivation and help to cut down on porn and masturbation. Thank you all! I will be posting in the success section soon to share my story :)

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: June 25, 2015, 10:54:14 AM »
Last night I had even more success, I went down on my girlfriend and she loved every second of it. I'm so happy my sex life is starting to finally become normal and healthy.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: June 24, 2015, 07:45:17 AM »
Had some brilliant progress last night. I was with my new girlfriend and while we were making out I was able to get pretty hard. She gave me a blowjob and I had no problems whatsoever. Tonight we'll probably go further, I am so happy.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: March 19, 2015, 12:32:26 AM »
So I kinda fucked up. I allowed myself to masturbate once and ended up watching porn and relapsing. Time to start again.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: March 15, 2015, 08:09:56 PM »
Just found some old pictures I had saved on a USB. Before I deleted them I had a quick look through and not even the slightest arousal from seeing them. I'm really pleased with how I'm doing at the moment.

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Teens / Re: 19 y/o, new to the game
« on: March 07, 2015, 01:44:05 PM »
Trust me, give it a while and you'll be making progress too. It's quite gradual so you do have to stick to it for a while. I'd have to say physical exercise works wonders. Any kind of sport or going to the gym will not only make you feel better but while lower your craving to masturbate and you'll look better for it which helps when you need a little more confidence with girls.

I think the problem that a lot of guys on here including myself, (before I started) find is that we place too much importance on sex in a relationship. If you can find a girl who truly appreciates your company then she's not going to see it as that much of a big deal. She should support you and try to help you the best she can. Also, try not to think about your penis too much. You can show her a good time without it and that will take the pressure off.

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Teens / Re: 19 y/o, new to the game
« on: March 03, 2015, 09:03:30 PM »
I know exactly how you feel. My background which lead me to this forum is almost identical to yours. Ever since the first time I tried to have sex I've been terrified of trying again. Ever since I've quit porn and masturbating (started rebooting in late May last year) I've only made progress. I've just started seeing a girl and even though we've only made out I could feel my penis responding. There's hope for us all here, we just have to find the will power to stay away from porn.

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Teens / Re: Do they come back?
« on: March 03, 2015, 08:51:15 PM »
 Sounds good dude! I really wouldn't worry about morning wood if you can get an erection when you're with your girlfriend. My best advice is to just try and relax and take things slow with her.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: March 03, 2015, 08:47:24 PM »
One of the main things I've noticed recently is that seeing pictures of hot girls doesn't arouse me anymore. This is great as it must mean I'm finding arousal in real girls rather than artificial stimulation.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: February 20, 2015, 02:13:09 PM »
I've had some really good progress recently. Last night I was making out with this girl who I like quite a bit and even though I was a fair few drinks down I was getting hard. While I was with her I really wanted her, I guess this is the mysterious sex drive that many of us on this forum have had trouble finding. Things are looking up :)

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: February 15, 2015, 11:53:37 AM »
Managed my goal of going 30 days no fap, now I'm moving it up to 60. Not going to lie, I currently feel miserable. This girl I'm trying to see keeps making excuses just before we have plans. I don't understand why I can never have anything go my way when it comes to girls. I honestly feel cursed.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: February 12, 2015, 09:50:24 PM »
Really proud of myself for going this long without masturbation. The urges aren't even that strong when I think about the positive benefits.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: February 06, 2015, 01:03:46 AM »
So tomorrow night I'm going out to a club with some friends and a girl I know likes me. Hopefully it goes well if we end up going back together. Just going to try my best and be as confident as I can.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: December 27, 2014, 10:58:29 AM »
Fuck, I need to get it together. I was doing so well for a while until I allowed myself one time to masturbate and now I've watched porn again. It's annoying as well because I'd probably be doing alright if that girl I was seeing hadn't messed me about.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: October 23, 2014, 08:17:31 AM »
Slept with the same girl again (non-sexual) and I was getting really hard just lying with and cuddling her. I had really bad blue balls this morning and some pre-cum leakage. I think this will go well :D

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Teens / Re: I want my life back! (OCD, Depression and Porn Addiction)
« on: October 19, 2014, 06:23:10 AM »
I wouldn't count that as a relapse, you didn't respond to the porn  :)

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: October 19, 2014, 05:20:05 AM »
Since being at uni I've met a nice girl and she's been in my room watching stuff on Netflix with me almost every night this week. Since quitting masturbation I find it so much easier to talk to her and be just be myself. Last night she slept over in my bed, we didn't do anything sexual but next time I think I'll try and make a move. It sucks how awkward I am when it comes to the first kiss but I'm sure she's into me.

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Ages 30-39 / Re: Please hold my hand, I need it
« on: October 14, 2014, 09:02:52 PM »
Keep going dude, that's great news! Give it long enough and your mind will be cleansed of everything bad that porn brought into your life.

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: October 05, 2014, 04:17:44 PM »
I allowed myself to masturbate to sensation alone last night. I felt I needed a release, it was amazing how quick it was until I came.

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Meepman, thanks for sharing your experience. What replace the fading fetish? I've been masturbating using fetish porn my entire life. I wonder what would be left after the fetish is faded. Would one becomes asexual???  :o If you don't mind, please share your experience. Thanks again.

Basically I'm just more interested in the general idea of having sex with girls rather than obsessing over things that most girls wouldn't be interested in doing. It just makes you feel more innocent like before you started watching porn.

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Ditching porn and masturbation will decrease your desires for specific fetishes. Since I stopped masturbating my old kinks are fading and it's great.

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Porn Addiction / Re: Is it ok to have sex during your reboot period?
« on: September 28, 2014, 08:54:40 PM »
Having sex is fine during the reboot process as you're pairing sexual thoughts and feelings with the real thing

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: September 28, 2014, 08:46:34 PM »
Since moving to university I have not masturbated once as I have had much more motivation to quit while being around pretty girls. The only downside is that I have yet to meet anyone and I feel frustrated without a release. I just need sexual and emotional intimacy.

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Teens / Re: prone masterbation
« on: September 12, 2014, 08:55:46 PM »
My guess is that you're flat-lining at the moment, don't worry this will pass  :)

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Teens / Re: My journal for quitting porn and masturbation.
« on: September 12, 2014, 08:53:52 PM »
You took 115 steps forward and one step back. Dust yourself off and keep truckin. You are doing AWESOME. and congrats on 115 by the way... Learn from this and continue down the road to recovery. Proud of you.

Thanks so much for replying Gabe, you were a big inspiration to me to quit when I found your video on YBOP. I will make sure I don't slip up again  :D

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