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Ages 20-29 / Rebooting again
« on: December 09, 2016, 03:44:21 AM »
Hey guys!
It's been a while since I last was around here, and since my last reboot
attempt. It was almost one year since I first started learning about PIED and Rebooting. Let's see how it goes this time. I've learnt a lot and improved in this year, let's make a great end for 2016.
Today is day 1

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: January 28, 2016, 05:30:29 AM »
Hi! Day 14
Today I've beaten my longest streak. It feels great  :D :D

The last 2 days, I’ve kinda had many impulses to have O. I didn’t have a wet dream, I’ve never had one, but I did have a weird dream where porn was somewhat present. I don’t want to go back to P again, and for now MO is out of bounds. But regarding my hard mode reboot, I’m not sure how far I should take it. When I started this streak I though about a minimum of something about 20 to 30 days. What do you guys think?

Thank you for reading!
Stay strong!

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Having DE after drinking alcohol isn't something strange at all I think. If you have no problems without alcohol I wouldn't worry much.  :)

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Near relapse
« on: January 18, 2016, 01:47:10 AM »
I think your problems go way beyond P, I think you should seek for help.  :-\
Figuring your shit out before dealing with PMO maybe could help. Rebooting is already hard enough if P is your only problem, so I can't get close to imagine what you're going through.
Good luck bro.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: January 16, 2016, 02:52:43 PM »
One more day done.
Quite horny this morning, now I'm moving into flatline.
Everything's cool  :D

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Ages 20-29 / Re: The fight to become a better version of myself
« on: January 15, 2016, 03:15:43 PM »
Hello bro.
Stay strong, you've already done so much up to this point. I'm sure you'll be able to keep going. I'm sure your ex-girlfriend was great but I can ensure you, you'll find someone else as awesome in the future. Look forward, once you've dealt with all of you're going through right now, you'll be awesome and eventually you'll find another awesome person that compliments you.

When I started rebooting and opened my journal here and everything, it wasn't on my plans to change anything else but PMO. But one thing lead to another, I first started running again a lot to control myself and avoid MO. And then once I went back to my place after the holidays I started changing what I eat and drink too. Now I wake up early every day and go running. The last thing has been retaking yoga which helps me a lot to reduce stress. And have many great plans for the next weeks once I have some more time. So yeah it seams quite crazy to think that one month ago I had no clue what PIED meant.

Have a great day, from Europe too.
Juan

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: January 15, 2016, 02:43:55 PM »
Thanks bro.
You stay strong too; you can beat your goals soon, you're already half way through it!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: January 15, 2016, 03:41:59 AM »
Hello guys
I've kinda had some rough days, almost relapsed but didn't.
But I'm back on track now.
Since I didn't relapsed but did MO I've added a new counter  :)

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: January 03, 2016, 08:02:14 PM »
Hey Isaac, thanks for answering.
Yeah, there's actually one page on YBOP about Rebooting with a partner that is like a sum up.
I was actually gonna post here now 'cause I went with it today, and it was great. It's been around 2 weeks since I last PMO, MO or O at all. I've read a lot here and on YBOP, some videos, and everything; and for the last few days I'm not quite sure if I was in flatline but for what I've read and what I felt it kinda felt like it. Since I had already read so much it didn't bother me as much.
Up to now I never liked hot tubs, because I kinda thought it worsened my ED. But today it was a different story, my ED ain't totally gone but at the start without me touching it I had like a 110% erection. The ED kinda kicked back later but there's been a huge progress so far. I've never experienced DE before, but now the issue would be quite the opposite if any.
Right now I'm not feeling any chaser effect at all, it's like I'm back in the flatline.
It my first time rebooting so I'm no expert at all, I just express what I feel, what I think; based on what I've learned from what I've read and watched.

I've kinda lost interest on PMO and MO at the moment. I've never thought of any time frame (like 90 days or whatever), I've always rather made changes, not only related to rebooting but in other aspects of my life, than make temporary adjustments, diets or whatever.  Sometimes results take time to arrive but when they do, they stick for longer if you've really changed.

For everyone reading, stay strong it ends up being totally worth it at the end.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: January 02, 2016, 10:51:25 AM »
Day 14

A-OK  :D

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: December 27, 2015, 03:26:32 AM »
One week done

No problems so far

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Start all over again
« on: December 24, 2015, 01:59:52 PM »
Stay strong.
You can do it. I think you should change your mindset and really think on stopping watching P forever and not just a fixed amount of time. Although I understand it's good to have a short-term goal in mind.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: December 24, 2015, 01:24:28 PM »
Yeah, well that's not the case for me. In an asexual-sexual spectrum I would be on the sexual side for sure.

I don't want to watch porn again in the future and I even once I end my reboot I don't plan to MO much.
But sex is important for me, if it wasn't my PIED wouldn't be a problem; I don't experience any other drawbacks from my P watching past.
I don't indulge in sex, it just a very important part of a relationship as there are many others for me  :)

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Go for option 3 definitely. If he's worth it, he'll stick around and help you along the way. And he does seems like he's worth it by what you've told so far.

I've had PIED for a while now (although I've only joined this place and started rebooting a few days ago), and all the guys I've slept with have been all 'Don't worry about it' at the time regarding my ED. I think most guys, and certainly all those who are worth it, can understand the situation and be supportive. So be confident, don't fear rejection and never, ever, feel less than other guys or ashamed.
You're worth it to stick around and wait till you're ready.

Also, regarding social networking apps, I don't feel that bad about it, I'm not currently a user, last one I used / my preferred one, is Tinder. I'd rather use Tinder, Grindr, Scruff... than date in a club late at night. But for sure, if you're rebooting you should stay away from them. They are a porn subs to most guys.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: December 24, 2015, 06:57:45 AM »
Day 5
Everything good up to now.

Question
The only thing I'm currently thinking about is how having sex (leading to O) can affect rebooting.
Do you think guys that is best to stay away from it or not?
Apart from chaser effect, are there any other cons?

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's Go!
« on: December 22, 2015, 06:07:42 AM »
Day 3

Today's the first day I felt, earlier in the morning, the "need" to MO. I didn't of course.

And now I feel like more excited/nervous/happy than would be expected. I think it's a withdrawal symptom, because there's nothing else that could've triggered this.
It's like if I had not slept enough and then had a ton of caffeine.

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Ages 20-29 / Rebooting again
« on: December 21, 2015, 08:20:02 AM »
Hey everyone

This is my first time trying.
I've had PIED for a few years now. I have no problem getting erections with MO, but they're stronger with P.
On the other hand, O have always been better with no P.
That didn't stop me from PMO anyway.

With a partner I can get an erection but I can't hold it enough; no matter how aroused I get.
I've never had any problem reaching O.
PA is not a problem at all. It could've been back in time but nowadays is totally gone.

My plan is to stop PMO and MO totally. I don't plan right now to stop having sex, I've just started dating a guy that could become a boyfriend or something.

Thanks for reading.

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