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Porn Addiction / Re: Anyone out there living with a foot fetish?
« on: September 01, 2015, 09:00:29 PM »

I also have a foot fetish. In my case, it already existed before I got addicted to porn, but it has definitely turned into something bad because of the porn addiction.

I only watched foot fetish videos, and that led me to "forget" about the  regular sex and only think about feet, footjobs, foot licking etc.

Now that I'm doing the reboot, I can tell you that this fetish is not the most important thing to me anymore when I think about sex. But it's still there in a "healthy" way, I would say.

So, don't feel bad about your fetish, because you will naturally control it during your reboot. If you know your fetish is previous to your porn addiction, I suggest you don't try to get rid of it.

wish you all the best :)

Ages 20-29 / Re: Wabbajack's road to awesome sex ;) [102 days]
« on: July 28, 2015, 03:26:45 PM »
congratulations Wabba! That's a great achievement :D

I have one question for you though... if you were able to have sex with your ex-girlfriend, why do you still consider that you're not free from PIED??

hello friends.

tonight i had my third wet dream in 3 days, after 1 month of rebooting. can you guys tell me if that is good or bad and your experiences with wet dreams?

thank you!

Ages 20-29 / Re: Another self-made victim
« on: July 20, 2015, 03:44:51 PM »
hahaha firstofall, that would be great... all of us drinking and telling our stories!  :D

you seem much happier now mate. keep it up

Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED: FUBAR, it's really bad :/ [91 days]
« on: July 19, 2015, 04:24:46 PM »
yes, man... I was mistaken. It's been an year and a half since we broke up and I don't even miss her.
the same can happen to you. you'll meet a lot of new girls now.

don't give up your life on her hands.

Ages 20-29 / Re: Another self-made victim
« on: July 18, 2015, 12:11:54 PM »
hey mate, I also relate to your story...
lost a couple of girlfriends due to lack of sex. I could not get it hard enough. I know the feeling. you can check my journal if you like.

keep focused on your healing. try to get some exercising routine if you're not doing it already.
just do NOT look for porn. the thing now is about getting healthy! watching porn might makes us feel good for a couple of minutes, but it's all a big lie.

I'm sure you can do it.
much love, from brazil.

Hey guys, how are you doing?

I'm here to say I reached my first 30 days!

The first 3 weeks were so easy... I didn't feel any will to masturbate. I believe that was a strong flatline period. Last week (the 4th week) was different. I was feeling very horny and missing that orgasm feeling... I also felt more tired than the first weeks (I can't tell if that's related to my brain or whatever, because I've doing the same routine all those weeks).

I can see some improvements already. I can get a good erection (near 100%) just thinking about previous experiences I had with my ex-girlfriends, for instance.

It's impressive to notice our brain working just like a roller-coaster. Today is being the worst day so far... as funny as it may sound. I don't know why, but I'm feeling kinda sad and alone, although my father is supporting me through all this, asking how I'm feeling and if I'm staying strong hehe. However, I'm conscious that this is my brain working and adapting, so I will feel better tomorrow :)

Thanks for reading!

Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED: FUBAR, it's really bad :/ [91 days]
« on: July 17, 2015, 08:17:33 AM »
Hey Wabba!

I went through something very similar to what happened to you, after my first girlfriend broke up with me. I felt like I would never love any one like I loved her etc. But I talked to my father about it, and he said a small phrase that changed my mind completely when I started to think about it. "YOU are the most important person of YOUR life".

so, wabba... keep in mind that you were/are not doing the reboot for that girl or anyone else, but YOU. this is YOUR life bro. your health!!!
fuck that orgasm. you have been doing a great job!! stay with us!

Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED: Closer and closer to success :) [84 days]
« on: July 10, 2015, 05:32:17 PM »
thanks for the reply! :)

I'm still far from being ready. I began my reboot only 22 days ago. One of the reasons (not clearly expressed) I broke up with her was the lack of sex, due to my PIED. That's when I took Cialis (you did leave a comment at my journal asking about it btw).

I'm definitely not ready to try again, especially with a girl that I don't have any intimacy, as I'm still in that flatline/low libido period.

Ages 20-29 / Re: PIED: Closer and closer to succes :) [84 days]
« on: July 10, 2015, 02:34:09 PM »
Hey man!
Good to see your progress :)

Here speaks a former long-haired metalhead from Brazil lol. I've cut my hair a couple of years ago, and believe me... you will get some really positive feedback from that decision ;)

I have a question for you though... how long did you wait (on hard mode) before any contact with women? I ask because I broke up with a girl 2 months ago and I think that was a good thing for this whole proccess. What is your opinion?

Ages 20-29 / Re: My Journey (Daily updates and insights)
« on: July 10, 2015, 07:31:39 AM »
hey man, I know exactly how you feel about feet... I've been through the same (thinking about foot videos when receiving a blowjob etc).
All the 7 years I masturbated to porn, I did it watching foot fetish videos.

 I've just started my rebooting, so I can't tell yet if my fetish is porn-induced or not. I believe it's not, because I remember enjoying girl's feet even before I started watching porn.
What I'm trying to do is to avoid anything about "feet" during the process, because I believe it will relate our brain to the foot fetish porn that we used to watch.

Hope to read more from you! Good luck!

that's a good one!! lol
well if he's like one of your best mates, then I suggest you forget about it. but you could make it look like it's not a sexual thing... like a gentle gesture only hahah plz tell me what happened if you ever try it.  :D

Ages 20-29 / Re: fetish gone. 19 days with no PMO. Feeling happy!
« on: July 08, 2015, 02:06:43 PM »
Hello Wabbajack :)
I believe it's going to be useful in this case you mentioned, like one night stands... because if you take a pill, you can be "sure" that your buddy will work. However I've read some cases where the guy took those pills and it didn't make any effect on him.

The Cialis I used to take was the 5mg one, for daily doses. I took a pill everyday (following the urologist's instructions). After a couple of weeks, I could get a normal 100% erection... you should see my gf's face at that time... she was so happy lol.
The thing is, we all know this effect is temporary. One week after I quitted the pills, my erections were not 100% anymore. I felt headaches and a horrible pain in my legs while I was taking them.

But yeah, at least it showed me that my penis could work one way or another, and I felt good about that.
Still, I believe that when get completely healed from our PIED, we won't have any problems getting a normal erection whenever we need to use a condom.

Ages 20-29 / Re: Slow but determined.
« on: July 08, 2015, 12:44:45 PM »
If this doctor said that, he must have an explanation... however, if you read the "success stories" on this forum, you'll notice that a lot of guys were able to stay more than 6 months without M or O or both... and still they had success in their rebooting. So I believe we don't need to be concerned about that.

Ages 20-29 / Re: Am I a lost cause? (Including journal!)
« on: July 08, 2015, 12:30:32 PM »
hey Blasphemic!
Have you heard about the documentary "hot girls wanted" ? If not, go check it out. I'm sure it will help you to stay away from porn for good. It shows us how dirty is that industry. This documentary is on Netflix by the way.

Stay strong!

Ages 20-29 / Re: fetish gone. 19 days with no PMO. Feeling happy!
« on: July 08, 2015, 08:36:49 AM »
I agree with everything you said. Although I don't see my taste for feet like a "fetish" anymore, I still appreciate this part of women's body  :D after reading all the stuff, I kind of realized that that's not everything I should look for in a girl.
I also used to see those pictures on instagram. I've uninstalled it from my smartphone lol.
Do you have a journal?

Ages 20-29 / Re: fetish gone. 19 days with no PMO. Feeling happy!
« on: July 07, 2015, 09:45:43 PM »
Lilliput Haunt
Apparently these sympthons are the same for the most of us. Thanks for your motivational words!

Thanks for your comment. I thought I had a strong foot fetish, as I only masturbated to foot fetish videos. Maybe yours will disappear, maybe not.
It's good to see brazilians here... PIED is very underrestimated here in Brazil. I wonder how many guys are suffering now and don't even know that this problem exists.
Let's stay strong!

Ages 20-29 / Re: I will RECOVERY... I will be FREE!
« on: July 07, 2015, 09:39:39 PM »
hey brazilian mate!

don't give up and don't be so tough to yourself! you will not relapse anymore, because that makes you feel depressive.

try to get busy, maybe doing some exercise/sports, so you won't think about fapping.

wish all the best!

Ages 20-29 / Re: New Day
« on: July 07, 2015, 08:59:05 PM »
Lilliput Haunt, as you read in my post, I'm pretty much a newbie in this subject. but allow me to say this... one thing that I noticed lots of successful rebooted guys saying emphatically is to stay away from PMO. So when you think about doing it, force yourself to think of something else right away.

you are doing a good job so far. you can do much more than the 40 days you have done!

At day 19, I also feel that low level of desire you talked about. I'm wondering if that's normal.

keep fighting the good fight!

Hello everyone! I'm 22 years old, living in Brazil (sorry for any english mistakes I can possibly make).

First of all, I wanna say thank you to everyone who reads this... I believe this is a great tool to help each other.

My story: I've been watching porn on the internet since I was 15 years old. Even before that, I already was into foot fetish: always looking for girl's feet no matter where I was and searching for pictures of them on Playboy magazines. So when I got high speed internet at home, I switched from the magazines to online porn, but always searching for the same stuff. I believe that's when I started to wire my brain to porn... I've been doing it pretty much everyday, for all those years (7 years).

I quitted it exactly 19 days ago, after I was desperately googling for solutions and found and realized I had PIED. I have failed pretty much everytime I tried to have sex. I even wasn't able to have sex with the girls I had steady relationships, which was very embarassing, and sad. I could never get hard enough to make actual sex and when I did, I lost it when tried to penetrate.

I visited some urologists while I still was in a relationship, but they all said the same "at your age, I'm pretty sure this is anxiety" or something like that... I knew it wasn't. Actually I knew there was something wrong with me, because it was like a part of me didn't want to have sex with them... this part of me only wanted those girls from the porn fetish movies I used to watch. I even thought about the movies when we were trying to have sex, to see if I could get hard enough. Of course I knew that was a problem. I took some medicine like cialis, and my penis started to work properly, allowing me to have successful sex. But I was just masking the real problem and quitted the medicine.

I broke up with this girl a month ago (sex was not the only reason, but certainly one of them) and right after that, I started the rebooting proccess. I can say these 19 days have been great. I'm more confident, more happy, back to the gym (like everyone says, exercising helps!) and started to eat healthy. I don't even miss that girl lol. I don't miss the foot fetish also. After watching Gabe's videos, I noticed I wasn't treating girls properly, even my ex-girlfriend. I was looking at them like a "pathway" to satisfy my fetish thing, which now I know it wasn't real.

After stopping PMO and reading all the stuff I could about PIED, I feel stupid for doing it for such a long time. I don't feel any urge to open porn sites or to masturbate. My libido is still turned off, but I believe this is normal (?). However, yesterday I was in the bus, a girl on the street smiled at me and I could feel some action down there! That made my day  :P  in these 19 days I've had one wet dream and around 5 morning woods... does this mean progress?

I've been very positive about all this and the rebooting proccess... a couple months ago I was very sad thinking I would never be able to give pleasure to a woman or have children, family etc. Now I can see a light at the end of the tunnel.

Thanks for reading!

ps: one thing that really helped me quitting porn instantly, was the documentary "hot girls wanted". It's on Netflix. It gives you and idea about how filthy is the porn industry. If you are having a hard time leaving porn behind, go check it out now.

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