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Prone masturbation is extremely damaging to your penis but you can recovery a bit in 2 weeks if you stop now. It's important that you stop all porn, masturbation and fantasizing.

Success Stories / Re: 12 days free
« on: December 23, 2016, 06:41:00 PM »
Keep up the good work m8

I also suffer from HOCD, but in the form of being afraid of self-castration. The longer and more successful reboots I get through the better I feel, especially going through some great rewiring.

So I'm 23 and have only been in intimate situations with three women. One with a woman I did not know and was too drunk to get it up with. One with a girl (my first kiss) who was also a virgin but didn't want to have sex with me once I let her no I was and now with my current paramour, I performed oral sex on her and she told me it was the best she ever had (I studied). Before when I would make out with her clothed I would always get an erection, and at time while making out with her in bed I would get semi-erect but couldn't maintain. I know it's in my head but how do I get over this performance anxiety?

Ages 20-29 / Re: 22 years old, been struggling for a year
« on: September 07, 2015, 10:23:45 PM »
Spent the weekend in another city, enjoying hanging out with friends to keep focus away from things. I've read that it is scientifically proven that it takes 66 days to form a habit, so my goal date is Nov. 7th. To make this process truly automatic.

Ages 20-29 / Re: 22 years old, been struggling for a year
« on: September 03, 2015, 10:02:59 PM »
Thanks bro

Ages 20-29 / 22 years old, been struggling for a year
« on: September 03, 2015, 10:31:50 AM »
Started in September of 2014 in earnest to really get things on track. Blocked pornography on all my devices except my phone because I couldn't find a good one. I've studied the research, read everything, and kept a personal diary for the year. The longest I've gone is 54 days no PMO. I've had other long periods with relapses in between. So its time to try something different, keeping a diary on the forum has worked for other people so now I hope it works for me. Through hard work and discipline I know I can avoid relapse.

Porn Addiction / Re: Deployed
« on: April 27, 2015, 08:10:18 AM »
Fellow soldier here(13F, in an 11 series company), stay strong brother, it can indeed be difficult to abstain when you have no sexual opportunities for a long time, alot of it is going to come out of your own discipline, but if you're not on patrol or tower guard I recommend doing anything else but being alone. Even if you're more introverted like I am. Hit the gym if you're on a FOB and have one, find other activities, eventually you'll just get used to not doing it. Power through and use that discipline I know you have.

And yeah a journal is a terrific idea, I keep one.

Not technically a relapse as long as you don't MO to it, but can definitely be bad for a reboot, will lead to other temptations.

Yeah, any masturbation is counter-productive to a good reboot it seems. You can get the sensitivity back with actual shagging.

Porn Addiction / Re: Hello Gentlemen. Now we begin.
« on: April 19, 2015, 04:55:13 PM »
Great post, thanks.

Ages 20-29 / Re: NO Watching Game of Thrones
« on: April 14, 2015, 08:20:56 AM »
Maybe that's wise, especially with how lewd the show is how much I've been struggling myself lately. I don't want to ruin 30+ days with a fap.

Porn Addiction / Re: Fantasizing during sleep time/night
« on: April 04, 2015, 01:15:16 PM »
I personally just try to focus on my goals when that happens, what I want to achieve from no PMO.

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