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I've been educating myself on Pornography addiction and sex addiction, but I still need to get my head around some topics. My newly wed husband told me about his addiction. We are together for 11 years but just got married. We met each other as teenagers, we were only 17. He blamed - as many - the addiction on the fact that we only saw each other on the weekends and thought the habbit might go away after the wedding.
When he told me, I asked him when was the last time he went 3 days without porn and his answer was our honeymoon. I was devastated.
Right now he is on reboot for 2 weeks. He joined a gymn with me, and I can notice the change is his behaviour before life, yet, he is still not attracted to me.
I asked him if he is feeling attracted to other women, and he told me that it has been hard for him to catch sight of so many tights at the gymn. And all I thought was: I know one ass he is not looking at.
We did have sex, since he quit, it was alright. But, right now I am questioning everything and comparing my self to every girl around. I don't know what to do to try and recover some self-esteem.
He asked me if I could prevent walking around the house in lingerie or naked, so I could help him reconnect. But what about the rest of the world? All I think about right now is how invisible I am, how useless I have become for so long and still am. Is this ever gonna go away?
How do I help him while I am healing? What do I share with him without make him feel guilty and making him worst?

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