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Ages 20-29 / Time to Reboot!
« on: April 06, 2017, 01:25:14 PM »
I am a 25 year old gay male who has been masturbating since I was 13 (man how time flies when you're having fun.) Any who, I've been in a relationship with a great for the past several months. I'm the bottom and he's the top. Simple eh? Not so much. So recently he's been having an itch for me to top him. No problem there either, right? Wrong! I've never really been the bottom you see in porn that maintains an erection. I thought it was normal, until I stumbled across this article about porn and ED. So I start to wonder. Can I not maintain an erection because I'm bottoming or I've accustomed my mind to watch so much porn? I even talked to my doctor and he said not everyone maintains an erection as a bottom. Gotcha.

However it didn't resonate well with me. I'm young, in shape, I work out, and I eat pretty healthy (aside from the Oreo's I demolish in one sitting.) So my partner and I considered getting ED pills, but before I go to that extreme, I'd like to try the organic route. Just quit watching porn for 90 days and beyond. Now I've read articles that say stop porn and masturbation, but what if I at least masturbate with my partner and ONLY with him? Not in my alone time.

I'm starting this reboot tomorrow from April 7th to July 7th and could use an accountability partner. I've tried (and tried) but I can't seem to do it alone. I'm going to talk to my boyfriend about it, but I'd like someone to help that understands exactly what I'm going through.

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