23 - Pied/Delayed ejaculation - Reboot - QUESTION

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nevidnanit

Member
Hello,

first of all, Im sorry for my english.

I'm 23 years old and I have ED and delayed ejaculation as long as I can remember. I even had it when I first started having sex at 18 years old.
I masturbated to porn from age 12 I think.. I also stutter and was always shy around women.

So, about a month ago I started with hardmode 90 days (now Im 33 days in) and I already noticed some positive changes. I already have morning wood almost every morning and when i touch myself a little bit more, I can get erection. Before that I could not get an erection or ejaculate without porn and clenching leg muscles. Of course, now Im rebooting and not ejaculating.

MY QUESTION IS:
After reboot how is it with sex and premature ejaculution? is dick very sensitive after reboot?

Im afraid that I will orgasm very quickly with a girl.

I hope i get some answers and I wish well all of you!



 
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Deleted member 17609

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Hi man,

I am not rebooted yet, but I have read countless recovery stories in the last months. Of course, premature ejaculation can become an issue after doing Nofap, especially at the beginning. It?s normal to orgasm quickly after being abstinent for weeks or months. But it usually goes away with time.

Don?t worry about this, man. Don?t be scared about this, you might not even face this when you are rebooted. Congratulations on 33 days, keep up the good work, and things will improve with time.

Good luck.
 
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nevidnanit

Member
Okay, I will try to not worry about it. All this is very embarrassing, but if I will recover from my PIED problem, then fuck it, I will go through this too.

Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.
 
Pedro Delgado

Pedro Delgado

Member
nevidnanit said:
Hello,

first of all, Im sorry for my english.

I'm 23 years old and I have ED and delayed ejaculation as long as I can remember. I even had it when I first started having sex at 18 years old.
I masturbated to porn from age 12 I think.. I also stutter and was always shy around women.

So, about a month ago I started with hardmode 90 days (now Im 33 days in) and I already noticed some positive changes. I already have morning wood almost every morning and when i touch myself a little bit more, I can get erection. Before that I could not get an erection or ejaculate without porn and clenching leg muscles. Of course, now Im rebooting and not ejaculating.

MY QUESTION IS:
After reboot how is it with sex and premature ejaculution? is dick very sensitive after reboot?

Im afraid that I will orgasm very quickly with a girl.

I hope i get some answers and I wish well all of you!
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Abstaining from porn and masturbation doesn't assure you a full recovery. NoFap is a useful tool, but if you want more you have to work on it, how long do you need until you can ejaculate?
 
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nevidnanit

Member
Hi Pedro Delgado,

okay, I didnt know that.
With "work on it", do you mean with a girl or masturbating?
The thing is, that I'm in quarantine situation because of covid and I unfortunatelly don't have any contact with women right now.

When I had girlfriend I couldnt cum when having sex, even when I took viagra (I had strong erection though)
I could cum only when she gave me a handjob, but even that took some time. at the begining it took around 15 minutes.
I think there was a little performance anxiety too, but that improved, because after a while I could cum faster with handjob.

With masturbating I couldn't get a full erection without porn, but now I think that improved a little bit.
 
Pedro Delgado

Pedro Delgado

Member
nevidnanit said:
Hi Pedro Delgado,

okay, I didnt know that.
With "work on it", do you mean with a girl or masturbating?
The thing is, that I'm in quarantine situation because of covid and I unfortunatelly don't have any contact with women right now.

When I had girlfriend I couldnt cum when having sex, even when I took viagra (I had strong erection though)
I could cum only when she gave me a handjob, but even that took some time. at the begining it took around 15 minutes.
I think there was a little performance anxiety too, but that improved, because after a while I could cum faster with handjob.

With masturbating I couldn't get a full erection without porn, but now I think that improved a little bit.
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What I meant with "work on it" is to find the inner causes and solve them instead of cover them (as it is done with pills, for example). I'm happy that your performance anxiety got better! In regards to delayed ejaculation, what kind of grip did you use to masturbate?
 
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nevidnanit

Member
Aha okay, I'm working on my inner problems too, which are mostly conected to stuttering and confidence.
During nofap hardmode 90 days (now, Im 55 days in) I also work on my speech and healthy body, so I would say that I'm working on myself.

I masturbated with tight grip, intensely, with clenching my leg muscles. I was not relaxed at all.
I did not edge, but I did look at the hardcore stuff on porn.

 
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