Its day 2 and I still manage pretty raging morning wood just as I wake up, watching porn has never really been my problem its just getting so wrapped up in my fetish that eventually it was all that got me up, so if anything wouldn't be masterbating and conditioning myself to normal pictures of women in bikinis or just naked be wise considering that's what I want in real life?
Can I masterbate after no fap and to what
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Viper
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Exactly why are you rebooting?
Do you have ED ?
If so, then avoid jacking off at all cost if you think it's porn induced erectile dysfunction PIED.
Avoid any sexual stimulation unless it's by a real partner.
I know the urge is there, I'm over 100 days deep into my reboot and still
feel that urge. And I get no morning wood.
Do you have ED ?
If so, then avoid jacking off at all cost if you think it's porn induced erectile dysfunction PIED.
Avoid any sexual stimulation unless it's by a real partner.
I know the urge is there, I'm over 100 days deep into my reboot and still
feel that urge. And I get no morning wood.
Im rebooting because all I used to get an erection to was bdsm/femdom related pictures and videos, I figure if I start thinking about vanilla sex again that my brain will rewire to only get hard to that again. With no visual aids either only imagination of women I've been with in past.
Not at the moment no, I personally think its natural to think about being naked with a woman and if I get an erection thinking about a scenario where I'm touching, kissing and holding her can only be beneficial compared to the totally unnatural thoughts that used to get me an erection. I feel like a reboot should be a time that things should be returned to normal and be natural so when a thought pops into my mind about just kissing a girl I don't feel like I should push it away.
Qwerty99 said:
I think this site has some sensible things to say about your question:
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-about-fantasizing-during-reboot
Bibbity
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My husband was able to get erections and masturbate to fantasies with me in it (vanilla stuff, didn't matter) but not able to perform when actually with me. I don't think fantasy is a good thing, at least not for a PMO addicts brain. His fantasies of me and being able to get erections to it is why he thought he had performance anxiety for such a long time and never thought it was porn/fantasy related. Everyone is different though!