Just joined reboot nation, will I ever enjoy normal sex again?

Qwerty99

Member
I'm 21 and I started the 90 day reboot yesterday, I'll give you a little history I started viewing images of women in bikinis in magazines when I was around 10 which got me off, but soon enough with the internet that progressed into a foot fetish around 14-15 and eventually into more femdom related fetishes like humiliation and facesitting in my late teens and finally it has progressed into more disturbing things such as ballbusting in current day. When I was 18 I lost my virginity and saw a high end escort and after about half an hour I got hard and had sex, I don't know if my trouble getting hard had anything to do with my past or just the fact that it was my first time and I was nervous.

Since then I've made a habit of meeting with women over the internet so satisfy my fetish fantasies, and I even tried to have sex with one of them but I couldn't manage to get an erection, I could only get one if it involved my fetish of being dominated, humiliated, ballbusted etc etc. I feel I am still young and want to change my life, I like looking at pics of naked women still but Its hard to get an erection if it doesn't involve my fetish, how long will it take to heal?
 

dc6

Member
Welcome.

You can, but don't thing about it in terms if "if I stop for this long it will be all better." This is not a cut that heals after a week. This is something that takes more time for some than it does for others. The best way to approach it is to just say that you are never going to engage in artificial sexual stimulation again, and then focus on how you change over time.

Some periods are tough, and some are easy. But keep your goal in mind and you'll be alright
 
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