Its my 22 birthday today and I've been doing nofap off and on for a couple months now, I've seen some improvements, I don't have a girlfriend atm but I just wanted to test myself so I saw an escort, we had sex but I literally only lasted about 30 seconds until I ejaculated, but I was able to maintain an erection when the condom was put on and I was able to actually penetrate her and get about 10-15 thrusts in, so do you think this is progress?
22 years old today, had successful sex but didn't last long
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@ Qwerty99
If you had ED and now you are able to get an erection... that is progress. However, in an earlier post from you, you said -
So it sounds like if you engaged in your fetish in order to have sex with this girl that is not progress. If you did not engage in the fetish then that sounds like that is progress.
Also, this is just my advice so take it or leave it, but I would suggest you pursuing a partner who is not a prostitute. I believe that you will never feel the full potential of pleasure that sex has to offer when one of the participants is getting paid to participate. It may be contributing to your humiliation fetish thinking that you have to pay for sex. You don't I promise you. There are so many people in this world and my advice is to find a loving partner who cares about you.
congrats on your progress. Keep on truckin
If you had ED and now you are able to get an erection... that is progress. However, in an earlier post from you, you said -
So it sounds like if you engaged in your fetish in order to have sex with this girl that is not progress. If you did not engage in the fetish then that sounds like that is progress.
Also, this is just my advice so take it or leave it, but I would suggest you pursuing a partner who is not a prostitute. I believe that you will never feel the full potential of pleasure that sex has to offer when one of the participants is getting paid to participate. It may be contributing to your humiliation fetish thinking that you have to pay for sex. You don't I promise you. There are so many people in this world and my advice is to find a loving partner who cares about you.
congrats on your progress. Keep on truckin
You're right I did use a little bit of my fetish but even in the past I was never able to maintain an erection once the condom was put on and If I couldn't stay hard to penetrate, its just feels like i've made progress because I actually was able to maintain my erection for normal sex, I'm still trying to stay away from that fetish and I plan on going for 2 months now with no PMO
Viper
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Gabe Deem said:
Damn,
Gabe was like "not on my watch" 8)
But you know, I do agree with him about the prostitutes.
I realize just like any guy, you want to get your rocks off.
Now although I don't know you from a fly on the wall, I'm thinking
that you ultimately want a conventional woman in your life with
good healthy sex involved. Am I correct?
So please fight the urge to pay someone to "get you off" because it
will not take you long to get hooked on that too.