So today I?ve made it to one month of no porn, no masturbation, and orgasming of any kind. What I have noticed is that after this break My penis is a little bit more sensitive now. My wife and I have been cuddling a lot and grinding as a form of rewiring and I can feel the anticipation much more now than before when I was beefing off and O?ing to porn. I get partially erect from it, and even more so than before when I wasn?t rebooting. have yet to have a morning wood and I also had my first wet dream last week and so far from what I know I believe it?s normal. I have 60 more days left to go. Do you guys have any questions, comments, concerns or any advice you want to give? Is this how a normal reboot is supposed to go?
1 month no PMO: My journey so far and looking towards what?s next
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thenickelphoenix
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I just started a 90 day NO O detox as well. I think it?s gonna be extremely beneficial. I have a very irregular circadian rhythm because I?m a shift worker. I don?t have regular ?wake up? times so ?morning? wood is a very loose concept for me. I don?t always have wood when I get up for the day. But I may have had it several times nocturnally when I had to get up for a trip to the can. Maybe for my internal clock that was supposed to be ?my morning? ... ... if that makes sense. *shrugs*
Either way can?t comment on wet dreams. I?m also at the very beggining of the journey and haven?t experienced it yet.
I?m very happy things are re-kindling with your wife. I can agree to that. Being 14 days away from P I am definitely starting to be aroused just by looking at my wife again. Not erect just looking or thinking yet. Aroused in the sense, that I desire to be intimate. Again, if that can makes sense. Lol.
Either way can?t comment on wet dreams. I?m also at the very beggining of the journey and haven?t experienced it yet.
I?m very happy things are re-kindling with your wife. I can agree to that. Being 14 days away from P I am definitely starting to be aroused just by looking at my wife again. Not erect just looking or thinking yet. Aroused in the sense, that I desire to be intimate. Again, if that can makes sense. Lol.
bob
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All I can say is each person is different, very different. You need to do what is right for you.
One of the biggest things (at least I believe) is to let go of the shame when you hit a lapse or relapse. I guess the difference is how fast you get back on the horse. If it's a one time thing and you realize your mistake, then its a lapse. If you "go down the hole," then you relapsed. The hard thing with me is the thought that if I shouldn't feel the shame, then what's the big deal? I can peak just a little bit can't i?
It is not a straight line. At least it hasn't been for me. I when for almost 70+ days without pmo or mo over the summer. I was amazed that I was able to do it. Then I started on p-subs. After all, I really like women's breasts.
So I would look at cleavage shots. Then to the next level and the next.
Everyone is different. But everyone should keep working to be free.
Peace
One of the biggest things (at least I believe) is to let go of the shame when you hit a lapse or relapse. I guess the difference is how fast you get back on the horse. If it's a one time thing and you realize your mistake, then its a lapse. If you "go down the hole," then you relapsed. The hard thing with me is the thought that if I shouldn't feel the shame, then what's the big deal? I can peak just a little bit can't i?
It is not a straight line. At least it hasn't been for me. I when for almost 70+ days without pmo or mo over the summer. I was amazed that I was able to do it. Then I started on p-subs. After all, I really like women's breasts.
So I would look at cleavage shots. Then to the next level and the next. Everyone is different. But everyone should keep working to be free.
Peace