Hi guys. I don't really know if this is the right place to open this topic and if it is not please feel free to move it where it belongs. So long story short. (For the record I'm 21 years old)
My history with porn :
First masturbation was when I was around 12 years old. A couple of years later I started doing it with porn. It was actually slow escalation going from poorly dressed girls to some naughty dancing and shit and gradually got to porn. And it all came to the point where I was masturbating AT LEAST 2 or 3 times A DAY.
(EDIT: I haven't escalated to any shit porn. Just the usual. No gay/tranny/BDSM and such. )
My sex history :
I'm weak on this one. My first time was when I was 18. I was with this girl for a few months. Had sex once a week, maybe a little more. Then we broke up and now I'm with my current girlfriend and we have been doing it for a few months.
The problem :
A slight PIED and severe PE. My first time I came maybe a minute after penetrating and most of the times I would come in the exact moment I get inside. I thought it will go away as we make sex more frequently which of course never happened. Also we had 1 or 2 good encounters but we both were high (weed).
The girl I am with now is a whole different story. I truly love her and so does she. I have been waiting for her to get ready for more than an year (she was a virgin) and I really want to please her. But that is impossible with my case of PE. She said "Well you waited for me more than an year and there is no f*ckin' reason why I won't wait for you" which made me cry out of joy.
What I did :
With my current girlfriend I noticed that although PE is as severe as it was before there is something new - ED. I could hardly get it up and the moment I get it up is the moment I feel like I am going to cum. And now that I said that maybe that is what happened with my last girlfriend too (the one that took my virginity). I don't really remember. And when I could hardly get hard with porn and cum with a flaccid dick I really decided I have to do something about it. So I found YBOP and some other sites and realized all the shit I have done to myself. So here are the things I am currently doing:
1. I haven't watched porn or masturbated for a week. Which is not exactly true.
I have peeked a few pictures (no videos no gifs and shit like that) and I have played a bit with my weenie but have NOT orgasmed through masturbation.
2. The only time I orgasmed during that week was when my girl came to my place and we fooled around a bit and SHE masturbated me to ejaculation.
3. I started exercising. Doing a home workout every other day and I will also (hopefully) start jogging to lose some wight (172cm 85kg...).
4. I am on a low carb diet or at least I'm trying
5. I also try doing some kegels. The reverse kegels are really strange and I don't know if I'm doing anything right.
The question :
Can my PE be cured with the no PMO and all the other shit I described above? I mean I will continue doing it regardless of the answer. I actually feel a lot better since I started and the last two days I have actually had a morning wood (today's was pretty damn hard). So can I be cured and is sex with my girl during during all of this good or bad? (We will continue anyway but it will be good to know what to expect )
My history with porn :
First masturbation was when I was around 12 years old. A couple of years later I started doing it with porn. It was actually slow escalation going from poorly dressed girls to some naughty dancing and shit and gradually got to porn. And it all came to the point where I was masturbating AT LEAST 2 or 3 times A DAY.
(EDIT: I haven't escalated to any shit porn. Just the usual. No gay/tranny/BDSM and such. )
My sex history :
I'm weak on this one. My first time was when I was 18. I was with this girl for a few months. Had sex once a week, maybe a little more. Then we broke up and now I'm with my current girlfriend and we have been doing it for a few months.
The problem :
A slight PIED and severe PE. My first time I came maybe a minute after penetrating and most of the times I would come in the exact moment I get inside. I thought it will go away as we make sex more frequently which of course never happened. Also we had 1 or 2 good encounters but we both were high (weed).
The girl I am with now is a whole different story. I truly love her and so does she. I have been waiting for her to get ready for more than an year (she was a virgin) and I really want to please her. But that is impossible with my case of PE. She said "Well you waited for me more than an year and there is no f*ckin' reason why I won't wait for you" which made me cry out of joy.
What I did :
With my current girlfriend I noticed that although PE is as severe as it was before there is something new - ED. I could hardly get it up and the moment I get it up is the moment I feel like I am going to cum. And now that I said that maybe that is what happened with my last girlfriend too (the one that took my virginity). I don't really remember. And when I could hardly get hard with porn and cum with a flaccid dick I really decided I have to do something about it. So I found YBOP and some other sites and realized all the shit I have done to myself. So here are the things I am currently doing:
1. I haven't watched porn or masturbated for a week. Which is not exactly true.
I have peeked a few pictures (no videos no gifs and shit like that) and I have played a bit with my weenie but have NOT orgasmed through masturbation.2. The only time I orgasmed during that week was when my girl came to my place and we fooled around a bit and SHE masturbated me to ejaculation.
3. I started exercising. Doing a home workout every other day and I will also (hopefully) start jogging to lose some wight (172cm 85kg...).
4. I am on a low carb diet or at least I'm trying
5. I also try doing some kegels. The reverse kegels are really strange and I don't know if I'm doing anything right.
The question :
Can my PE be cured with the no PMO and all the other shit I described above? I mean I will continue doing it regardless of the answer. I actually feel a lot better since I started and the last two days I have actually had a morning wood (today's was pretty damn hard). So can I be cured and is sex with my girl during during all of this good or bad? (We will continue anyway but it will be good to know what to expect
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