goffredo
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Hey gang,
I think I'm starting to hone in on a trigger that causes me to lose my erection. The other night, I had stellar sex with my girl. I was hard as a rock the whole time.
Then more recently, we were going at it, and she asked me to get into a particular position. Mind you this is the exact same position I had great success at on our previous encounter! ... and I totally lost my boner. The only difference was that this time, she asked me to do a position change. The last time, I just did it myself.
In an abstract sense, it might boil down to who is in control of the situation, and I'm starting to wonder if I have some kind of psychological trigger in this regard. I was thinking about it, and there have been a number of times where having a woman tell me what to do during sex -- even something as mundane as "faster!" -- causes some kind of crazy trigger that makes me get anxious and almost immediately lose my boner.
Might be something I need to work on with my therapist, but wanted to bring it up just in case anyone had advice.
Cheers!
I think I'm starting to hone in on a trigger that causes me to lose my erection. The other night, I had stellar sex with my girl. I was hard as a rock the whole time.
Then more recently, we were going at it, and she asked me to get into a particular position. Mind you this is the exact same position I had great success at on our previous encounter! ... and I totally lost my boner. The only difference was that this time, she asked me to do a position change. The last time, I just did it myself.
In an abstract sense, it might boil down to who is in control of the situation, and I'm starting to wonder if I have some kind of psychological trigger in this regard. I was thinking about it, and there have been a number of times where having a woman tell me what to do during sex -- even something as mundane as "faster!" -- causes some kind of crazy trigger that makes me get anxious and almost immediately lose my boner.
Might be something I need to work on with my therapist, but wanted to bring it up just in case anyone had advice.
Cheers!