Hello everyone. I'm glad that I found this place, and I hope it can be something that helps me move past this.
I just turned 40, and have felt that my sexual performance with a real partner has been inconsistent. Usually the first "round" I am able to have a very healthy erection with her and the sex is amazing. Then, a little later if we want to go for it again or even a few hours down the line, I have experienced difficulty getting and maintaining an erection. Sometimes in moments of passion I can get it back, but it can go away when changing positions, etc. I've always thought this is due to stress, being tired, etc., but I found this site and now realize that it may be related to porn and masturbation.
That said, I'm starting a streak today. It's day 1. I have the Reboot app on my phone and I'm going to give this my best.
My partner means too much to me to let this drag me down, and I feel like I can correct this before it gets worse. It's humiliating when I cannot perform, even though mentally and emotionally I'm really captivated by her.
Thanks for your support, everyone.
C
I just turned 40, and have felt that my sexual performance with a real partner has been inconsistent. Usually the first "round" I am able to have a very healthy erection with her and the sex is amazing. Then, a little later if we want to go for it again or even a few hours down the line, I have experienced difficulty getting and maintaining an erection. Sometimes in moments of passion I can get it back, but it can go away when changing positions, etc. I've always thought this is due to stress, being tired, etc., but I found this site and now realize that it may be related to porn and masturbation.
That said, I'm starting a streak today. It's day 1. I have the Reboot app on my phone and I'm going to give this my best.
My partner means too much to me to let this drag me down, and I feel like I can correct this before it gets worse. It's humiliating when I cannot perform, even though mentally and emotionally I'm really captivated by her.
Thanks for your support, everyone.
C
