Quercus
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First of all, I found this while trying to find this website again:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201307/your-brain-porn-its-not-addictive
My wife hit menopause about 12 years ago and for 10 +/- years, NO sex... literally. I'm not talking about infrequent, I'm talking 3 times in 10 years. 2 of the 3 were pointless because she wasn't her previous sexual self.
She/we started HRT and have had the best sex of my life... briefly. Then the hormones dwindled again.
So, if I have no partner at home and I'm not going outside of my marriage, what options do I have for stimulation besides porn? Not many. Over time, I've found that orgasms are next to impossible without visual stim... porn. Even sex with wife when she's ready is still sometimes difficult for me to orgasm. She's pretty easy since I know where her "sweet spot" is... works every time. 8) However, even though I enjoy HER orgasms quite a bit, I'd like to restore my own.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201307/your-brain-porn-its-not-addictive
My wife hit menopause about 12 years ago and for 10 +/- years, NO sex... literally. I'm not talking about infrequent, I'm talking 3 times in 10 years. 2 of the 3 were pointless because she wasn't her previous sexual self.
She/we started HRT and have had the best sex of my life... briefly. Then the hormones dwindled again.
So, if I have no partner at home and I'm not going outside of my marriage, what options do I have for stimulation besides porn? Not many. Over time, I've found that orgasms are next to impossible without visual stim... porn. Even sex with wife when she's ready is still sometimes difficult for me to orgasm. She's pretty easy since I know where her "sweet spot" is... works every time. 8) However, even though I enjoy HER orgasms quite a bit, I'd like to restore my own.