I've recently gotten the furthest I've ever gone without pmo. I went a month and a half and I did it with ease. I had been heavily pmoing since 13, I'm 19 now and only the most specific genres and scenes satisfied me. Anyway towards the end of my streak, I started getting morning wood again regularly! Had a few sexual dreams, spontaneous erections and attraction to real life women. The progress seemed incredible, as before, I couldn't masturbate to anything but the kinkiest of porn and still feeling unsatisfied.
So this begs the question, whats the problem? I ask myself the same question. The last week of that streak was unbearable, I literally could not stop thinking about sex and possible sexual encounters. The feeling of myself getting aroused to just thoughts seemed so foreign I couldn't stop. I had to force myself to not touch myself. Eventually I saw myself getting weaker with my reboot. I saw myself as semi-cured so I started my old habits, re-activated instagram, got a few dating apps and disabled my porn blocker. I couldn't do it anymore so I relapsed by sexting with a girl. I figured if it was going to happen anyway, it was gonna happen with a somewhat real person. When in this mindset, you cheat yourself, trying every possible scenario in your mind to justify giving up.
It felt incredible during it, I'm so much more sensitive to touch than I used to be, but as I finished, I felt a sinking feeling. Shame, embarrassment and anger. Now the past 5 days since then, Ive been using porn. It feels like a blur.
If anyone could give any tips on how to deal with urges and how to get back on track, please let me know.
Thanks.
So this begs the question, whats the problem? I ask myself the same question. The last week of that streak was unbearable, I literally could not stop thinking about sex and possible sexual encounters. The feeling of myself getting aroused to just thoughts seemed so foreign I couldn't stop. I had to force myself to not touch myself. Eventually I saw myself getting weaker with my reboot. I saw myself as semi-cured so I started my old habits, re-activated instagram, got a few dating apps and disabled my porn blocker. I couldn't do it anymore so I relapsed by sexting with a girl. I figured if it was going to happen anyway, it was gonna happen with a somewhat real person. When in this mindset, you cheat yourself, trying every possible scenario in your mind to justify giving up.
It felt incredible during it, I'm so much more sensitive to touch than I used to be, but as I finished, I felt a sinking feeling. Shame, embarrassment and anger. Now the past 5 days since then, Ive been using porn. It feels like a blur.
If anyone could give any tips on how to deal with urges and how to get back on track, please let me know.
Thanks.