alright, so here is the story... i started viewing/masturbating around the age of 14 I would say. been single up to now ( 26). i noticed i had an issue down there from early on, I would say around 19 or 20, and never knew how to deal with it. no idea there was such a thing as being able to get ED, always figured it was something you are born with or not.
i am not too sure where i fall in regards to addiction, or degree of ED... i do have a few questions im hoping a expect or recovered member can help me out with... i will also give the answer below to help.
1) how many times do i watch porn?
a) i could watch porn from 1 to maybe 8 times in one day ( 8 is my max i have ever done).
2) reason for watching porn?
a) of course when im in the mood, what i also find is when im busy.. i do not have a need for it, or masturbation. i would like to say i watch when im bored?
3) do i need porn?
c) i do not need porn to get an erection, i do not need it to orgasm either. it can work from a cute picture of a girl on insta/ facebook, and my mind will do the rest. when my mind is blank.. i can not get hard, when i think about sex, i can.
4) outside porn?
a) i have meet with a few people. i can get hard when i get a blowjob, altho to be honest.... not 100% hard, yet not soft. when they climb on top tho, i lose the erection.... performance anxiety? selfish lol? i am still a virgin... i will be honest.
5) is there any other questions i am missing i should be asking myself?
i would also like to know the thoughts on viagra/cialis. im well aware this is not going to fix the issue.... but i was wondering if there is a way to both recover, and still have a partner to be with sexually. can they help me in the physical department, while my mind reboots ? or am i putting my friend into a hibernation till the winter is over?
i hope there is someone who cana help answer my questions. i am willing to do the work tho.
good luck gentlemen on the slumber
i am not too sure where i fall in regards to addiction, or degree of ED... i do have a few questions im hoping a expect or recovered member can help me out with... i will also give the answer below to help.
1) how many times do i watch porn?
a) i could watch porn from 1 to maybe 8 times in one day ( 8 is my max i have ever done).
2) reason for watching porn?
a) of course when im in the mood, what i also find is when im busy.. i do not have a need for it, or masturbation. i would like to say i watch when im bored?
3) do i need porn?
c) i do not need porn to get an erection, i do not need it to orgasm either. it can work from a cute picture of a girl on insta/ facebook, and my mind will do the rest. when my mind is blank.. i can not get hard, when i think about sex, i can.
4) outside porn?
a) i have meet with a few people. i can get hard when i get a blowjob, altho to be honest.... not 100% hard, yet not soft. when they climb on top tho, i lose the erection.... performance anxiety? selfish lol? i am still a virgin... i will be honest.
5) is there any other questions i am missing i should be asking myself?
i would also like to know the thoughts on viagra/cialis. im well aware this is not going to fix the issue.... but i was wondering if there is a way to both recover, and still have a partner to be with sexually. can they help me in the physical department, while my mind reboots ? or am i putting my friend into a hibernation till the winter is over?
i hope there is someone who cana help answer my questions. i am willing to do the work tho.
good luck gentlemen on the slumber