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Hey all, this is my first post ever. I have participated in NO FAP, no porn, no nothing for quite some time now. I have successfully completed 90 days 3 times now, over the past three years. I can say my life has changed immensely since I found out about the harm I have been doing to myself since 7th grade. I will never forget the first day I found porn. It was a great day, but it altered my perception of things for a little over a decade. I am here to say that will not define me anymore. I have relapsed multiple times and the people who say failure is apart of the journey are correct. I remember the relief I felt when I got my first 90 days done. It was great lift off my shoulders it showed me i could do it. It showed me I didn't need porn in my life. I also realized that while I hadn't been doing anything wasting my time, I also hadn't filled my time with anything else just focusing on avoiding porn at all cost. That is really hard with technology at everyones finger tips now. That is why I am here to fill out these post not to be accountable or to be noticed for my achievements, but to help others who deal with the same situation as me. I know how much porn has taken away from my life and I'm sure others. It doesn't have to stay that way forever. I am here to say it is possible to get away from porn and have an enriching life. This is my day one of what I know will be a new great journey of growth for me and for others as I share my tips, my failures from the past, my new ambitions, and my positivity so that we can all move forward with the life we were meant to live. Thank you porn for showing me how weak I could be but, I am taking over. You weren't worth it, you never were, I knew it then, and I for sure know it now. See ya never porn.
Post tip: for people like me who grew up with porn and the pornhubs the 89.com from the beginning of masturbation I implore you to stay away from all artificial porn whether its pictures, voices, writings, erotica, even accidental genitals or things like that. Its like going cold turkey and I know its hard, but that is what I found to be the most successful in my reboot. If you can't go straight cold turkey you need to either trim it down amount of time you spend, stop touching yourself (becomes easier after you stop watching for a while you learn wow I am not even turned on by this they just made me believe that I was), or not orgasming (thats a challenge). Any little step in the direction towards getting away from porn is a step in the right direction, I gave you some, but you can pick anything you choose. It is about you taking control of YOUR life back. It is your life in the first place who else is going to be in control of it you or the machine
Post tip: for people like me who grew up with porn and the pornhubs the 89.com from the beginning of masturbation I implore you to stay away from all artificial porn whether its pictures, voices, writings, erotica, even accidental genitals or things like that. Its like going cold turkey and I know its hard, but that is what I found to be the most successful in my reboot. If you can't go straight cold turkey you need to either trim it down amount of time you spend, stop touching yourself (becomes easier after you stop watching for a while you learn wow I am not even turned on by this they just made me believe that I was), or not orgasming (thats a challenge). Any little step in the direction towards getting away from porn is a step in the right direction, I gave you some, but you can pick anything you choose. It is about you taking control of YOUR life back. It is your life in the first place who else is going to be in control of it you or the machine