Hi everyone. I am very active on the page, I dont post to much but I do read and give my opinions on things. I have some questions and if anyone had any for me I can input as well. Needles to say even after 1 year npmo I still have ED.. I havent been sexually active for over a year. This ordeal caused me marriage to fall apart and I am still going thru the process. I am in not hurry or want to be sexual with anyone right now. But I hope that benefits me in curing my problem. I think the biggest thing that helped me stay away is the fact that I hit rock bottom and lost my marriage. Sucks it took that but it deff opened my eyes. I got off Facebook... and that helped a lot... I spend 90% of my time in the gym after work and have made big changes in myself physically. My big question... is when do we actually determine we are cured? When do we know? Should I wait till I see mental signs? I want to wait till my divorce is over with before I try seeing progress just because I loved my marriage and dont want to dishonor it any more than I have already. Thanks