2016willrock
Member
Well its about a month since i joined this site.so far no return to old habits.
However my big reason for joining the site and changing my life was due to meeting an amazing woman.
Things are good and we have been meeting each others families/friends and started talking about holidays.
However, my big fear is of course in the bedroom. While i have been open with the problem im having, and she has been amazing, i still find myself feeling really scared at the prospect of being in close with her.knowing im trying to reboot in itself kinda scares me to an extent where all i can think about is that i have developed this problem.
Essentially i cant relax, which i imagine cannot help. A small part of me wonders if i should end things andnot date until im back to normal..but things are wonderful otherwise and that is not what i want.
has anyone else been in this scenario and can you give any advice or thoughts? Thanks
However my big reason for joining the site and changing my life was due to meeting an amazing woman.
Things are good and we have been meeting each others families/friends and started talking about holidays.
However, my big fear is of course in the bedroom. While i have been open with the problem im having, and she has been amazing, i still find myself feeling really scared at the prospect of being in close with her.knowing im trying to reboot in itself kinda scares me to an extent where all i can think about is that i have developed this problem.
Essentially i cant relax, which i imagine cannot help. A small part of me wonders if i should end things andnot date until im back to normal..but things are wonderful otherwise and that is not what i want.
has anyone else been in this scenario and can you give any advice or thoughts? Thanks