7 weeks No P - I got nothing...

57yrold

Active Member
Seven weeks since I last looked at porn, but only a little over two weeks since my last O.  That was with my wife, but since then I've decided I should have gone hard mode.  Now I'm No P, No M, No O.

I know I'm going to take more time, and that's OK, but man I feel like crap lately.  Depressed/Anxious.  No Libido.  Dead/limp penis.

This is just a flatline I'm going through, but man it sucks.

I still feel confident that I won't ever look at porn again.  I've got that.

However, I'm still completely lacking confidence that this process is going to get my erections back.

Really, it's only been two weeks, so I have a long way to go.  I understand that.  I guess the good news is that I'm going to keep going no matter what. 

I really want to have good, healthy sex with my wife again.  I just love her with all my heart.

But right now I'm really, really down and this really, really sucks.

Frustrated as hell...
 

Red Bear

Active Member
Hold on, brother. Let your love make you strong to fight.
I feel just the same way. A new job helps me not to think about it...
We must just get over it.
 

57yrold

Active Member
Thanks.

I do feel strong.  No PMO for me.

Looking forward to the great sex with my wife in a few (?) months!!

 

elephantricity

Active Member
I can relate to your situation. I have MANY years of porn addiction, and meeting this new girl made me realize what I was doing was not worth it. I'm a newbie here and made the commitment to no porn and masturbation 11 days ago. Thankfully, thinking about this girl and talking/texting with her gives me semi-erections. This tells me my penis isn't completely dead. I have ZERO urges to view pornography or masturbate right now. I guess that would be considered a flat line, but I'm not depressed, since I think having the support of this woman makes it easier to cope with not having to get myself off everyday like before.
 
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