Please I really need help asap

Olushola

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I wanted to quickly share my experience. I think Porn induced ED has been affecting me for years. I struggled with my sexuality for years eventually coming out when I was 25. At last I taught all the hardship and mental stress is over. However over the last 5 years every single guy I have been with I either failed to get an erection or lost it. At first I blamed alcohol and then tiredness or depression. But I now realised that it's my addiction to porn and Mausterbation that this ruining my life. I've known this for a long time and have let it destroy any chance I've had of forming a relationship. I now feel worthless and really taught I was cursed or something as it took so long to come out and then this happened. I can never seem to catch a break. I really need to beat this and get my life back on track. I want to enjoy sex and not fear it and constantly have to think of excuses for why I can't get hard. It's so embarrassing and it needs to stop. Any help or advice you guys can give would be amazing.

Thank you.

I'll be looking forward to hearing from you.
 
Hey man. Sorry to hear you?re having a hard time. Being gay is certainly tough and add porn addiction to that and you?re definitely in for one hell of a ride. I can relate to your story because I?m gay and addicted to porn too.

I would advice a hard mode reboot. Give up PMO completely for a minimum period of 90 days and then take it from there. See what effects you notice during these 90 days. Also one good way to succeed in this would be to replace porn with healthy and productive habits. A lot of us watch so much porn that when we give it up completely we?re left with so much free time we have no idea what to do with it. Taking extra classes, or meditating, swimming or working out or any other fitness activities are examples of some things that will help you divert your mind.

Posting here often and reading other guys? journals is also quite effective. This is a journey and if you take 5-10 minutes everyday to post your thoughts here and reflect on them it can go a long way.

Remember, whatever comfort porn gave you is nothing compared to the experience you will have with a real man. Porn was just an escape route that a lot of us gave in to because it seemed the easier option at the time. Don?t worry though, you can still recover. It?s never too late. Keep on fighting the good fight man. Good luck.
 
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