MuuneBewts
New Member
Hey all,
Today is the last time I will ever watch porn or stimulate myself through artificial digital means. Now, I have said this before---Many times. What makes this time different? Crippling depression? Anxiety? Fear of losing the one you love most? All of the above.
In the past I have always posted about all of things I am going to do to overcome this addiction. Only to falter, and disassociate myself from the problem. Relapse after relapse...I am good for about 5 days then I will find myself in a situation her I am by myself...horny as fuck...and no self control. After the relapse...intense feelings of shame and depression...the nagging fear of the collapse of my relationship, my perpetuation of sexual dysfunction....yes PIED is real. In order to have sex, I have had to go to Sex therapy....get ED pills to allow me to stay hard...but even then...there is no release.
The whole Sexual process has become some big Awkward monster of a feeling between my wife and I. She has been nothing but supportive....But I keep lying to her...and its killing me. I can't do it anymore.
I have done everything I can think of to ensure I do not view any pornographic material. Phone is on lock down with restrictions PW help by my wife. K9 is set up on my computer---I edited the host file within windows and also looked into setting up open DNS for my network....
I have no instagram, twitter, or reddit...only facebook---I use youtube on a regular basis and today the culprit was using VIMEO to look at some really artsy photo shoots....this is where I fell...I have since added Vimeo to the Host File, and hope to never go there again.
I downloaded this APP that I think will help me with my mission...It keeps track of my progress and gives me kind of a physical way of looking at what I am doing.
I will be using this as a journal for the next 90+ days....lets see if I can make it past 5 days this week....
Thanks for listening, and for any support
Today is the last time I will ever watch porn or stimulate myself through artificial digital means. Now, I have said this before---Many times. What makes this time different? Crippling depression? Anxiety? Fear of losing the one you love most? All of the above.
In the past I have always posted about all of things I am going to do to overcome this addiction. Only to falter, and disassociate myself from the problem. Relapse after relapse...I am good for about 5 days then I will find myself in a situation her I am by myself...horny as fuck...and no self control. After the relapse...intense feelings of shame and depression...the nagging fear of the collapse of my relationship, my perpetuation of sexual dysfunction....yes PIED is real. In order to have sex, I have had to go to Sex therapy....get ED pills to allow me to stay hard...but even then...there is no release.
The whole Sexual process has become some big Awkward monster of a feeling between my wife and I. She has been nothing but supportive....But I keep lying to her...and its killing me. I can't do it anymore.
I have done everything I can think of to ensure I do not view any pornographic material. Phone is on lock down with restrictions PW help by my wife. K9 is set up on my computer---I edited the host file within windows and also looked into setting up open DNS for my network....
I have no instagram, twitter, or reddit...only facebook---I use youtube on a regular basis and today the culprit was using VIMEO to look at some really artsy photo shoots....this is where I fell...I have since added Vimeo to the Host File, and hope to never go there again.
I downloaded this APP that I think will help me with my mission...It keeps track of my progress and gives me kind of a physical way of looking at what I am doing.
I will be using this as a journal for the next 90+ days....lets see if I can make it past 5 days this week....
Thanks for listening, and for any support