hello everyone!
this is the first time I am posting on this website. my husband and i have been married for three years but have been together a total of 8. i always knew that my husband watched porn but it was never an issue in our sex life. i figured him watching it was no big deal because i knew there would be times where i would not want to have sex but he would. the past year and a half is when the porn watching became worse. we were never intimate at all and when we would be he could never perform and all he cared about was satisfying him and not enjoying this bond as a married couple.
once he realized what was causing this he has been working his butt off to make a change. we both changed our eating habits, started working out and stopped smoking weed. these past few months we have a set of differences in terms of kids. this was around the time him and i wanted to expand our family. with this whole issue going on it delays things. i want to wait the 90 days and have him reboot correctly while he wants to try and not waste time ( our parents are not well and it is very important for us to have our parents see their grandkids)
i am just curious what the best option is for us. should we wait the 90 days and see where he is performance wise then or should we at least be trying when i ovulate?
this is the first time I am posting on this website. my husband and i have been married for three years but have been together a total of 8. i always knew that my husband watched porn but it was never an issue in our sex life. i figured him watching it was no big deal because i knew there would be times where i would not want to have sex but he would. the past year and a half is when the porn watching became worse. we were never intimate at all and when we would be he could never perform and all he cared about was satisfying him and not enjoying this bond as a married couple.
once he realized what was causing this he has been working his butt off to make a change. we both changed our eating habits, started working out and stopped smoking weed. these past few months we have a set of differences in terms of kids. this was around the time him and i wanted to expand our family. with this whole issue going on it delays things. i want to wait the 90 days and have him reboot correctly while he wants to try and not waste time ( our parents are not well and it is very important for us to have our parents see their grandkids)
i am just curious what the best option is for us. should we wait the 90 days and see where he is performance wise then or should we at least be trying when i ovulate?
