Hello My name is Gotti
I realized that I am addicted to sex/porn. I have been watching porn since I was 13 years old but never had any issues with woman ( at least I don't think I did). I married the girl of my dreams and sexually she was the greatest thing that happened to me and I got addicted to her, I needed to have it all the time and when she could no longer keep up with my demands I dove deeper into porn. At first I thought at least I am not cheating and that I don't want to start a fight over sex so I will go down to the basement and rub one out. This is essentially how it was for a few years but then the one rub out became two or three, instead of going down to the basement I would do it in my room with the iPad, at first by myself and then right next to my wife if she denied me sex. At some point, I started recording myself making love to my wife and watching it. I justified it as "at least I am watching my wife" after some time me and my wife just could not connect sexually on occasion I don't think I ever suffered any ED because I could always could go when ever she needed it and I became obsessed with making my wife squirt which I believed I picked that up from watching porn. As many of you know marriage is not easy and at times you fuss with your wife but over the years my wife started using sex as a weapon as a form of control over me. When things got bad we would not have sex for months, last year we did not have sex at all. This drove me deeper into porn and almost into deviant acts like considering looking for other women. I never did connect with other women because morally I am married and I am insanely in love with my wife. I notice my friends talk about their wives and it's like that don't even enjoy having sex with them. With me it's opposite, my wife is the greatest lover ever and there is no need to look elsewhere. At one point i believed sex was my love language and if someone cared for me they would express it through sex, I still believe that and I realize now that may be the problem. My wife is now withholding sex and now we are potentially divorcing (the porn was not the major issue to the marriage but I believe it may have sparked some behaviors that impacted the marriage)....but I'm here because I need encouragement as now more than ever I want to fire up that iMac and relieve my stress away...I have not watched porn all day today( well when i deleted the bookmarks from my browsers I did briefly look at one or two but I did not FAP)....So this is my first step into the rest of my life.....my goal is to control it...no more procrastinating because i need to get my morning fix of the right porn scene, no more being late to events because I was delayed getting ready looking for the perfect girl in the right sexual position like my wife normally was...no more laziness due to me sitting around trying to get instant gratification....But it will be hard because I am a freak and I love freaky sex and Porn was my guarantee that I could find it if I could not find a partner just as freaky as me for the night. Pray for me
I realized that I am addicted to sex/porn. I have been watching porn since I was 13 years old but never had any issues with woman ( at least I don't think I did). I married the girl of my dreams and sexually she was the greatest thing that happened to me and I got addicted to her, I needed to have it all the time and when she could no longer keep up with my demands I dove deeper into porn. At first I thought at least I am not cheating and that I don't want to start a fight over sex so I will go down to the basement and rub one out. This is essentially how it was for a few years but then the one rub out became two or three, instead of going down to the basement I would do it in my room with the iPad, at first by myself and then right next to my wife if she denied me sex. At some point, I started recording myself making love to my wife and watching it. I justified it as "at least I am watching my wife" after some time me and my wife just could not connect sexually on occasion I don't think I ever suffered any ED because I could always could go when ever she needed it and I became obsessed with making my wife squirt which I believed I picked that up from watching porn. As many of you know marriage is not easy and at times you fuss with your wife but over the years my wife started using sex as a weapon as a form of control over me. When things got bad we would not have sex for months, last year we did not have sex at all. This drove me deeper into porn and almost into deviant acts like considering looking for other women. I never did connect with other women because morally I am married and I am insanely in love with my wife. I notice my friends talk about their wives and it's like that don't even enjoy having sex with them. With me it's opposite, my wife is the greatest lover ever and there is no need to look elsewhere. At one point i believed sex was my love language and if someone cared for me they would express it through sex, I still believe that and I realize now that may be the problem. My wife is now withholding sex and now we are potentially divorcing (the porn was not the major issue to the marriage but I believe it may have sparked some behaviors that impacted the marriage)....but I'm here because I need encouragement as now more than ever I want to fire up that iMac and relieve my stress away...I have not watched porn all day today( well when i deleted the bookmarks from my browsers I did briefly look at one or two but I did not FAP)....So this is my first step into the rest of my life.....my goal is to control it...no more procrastinating because i need to get my morning fix of the right porn scene, no more being late to events because I was delayed getting ready looking for the perfect girl in the right sexual position like my wife normally was...no more laziness due to me sitting around trying to get instant gratification....But it will be hard because I am a freak and I love freaky sex and Porn was my guarantee that I could find it if I could not find a partner just as freaky as me for the night. Pray for me