Post sex porn relapse

So last night I was feeling fantastic. I was only on day 7 , but my libido was so high. I called up an old girlfriend of sorts, made plans, and went over to her house.

The good news is my dingdong worked well enough. I won't go into too many details so as to not titillate, but I'd give my performance an A minus. This is much better than the pooped post porn F from a couple months ago with this girl. I've had ok performances and terrible ones, and I always blame the terrible ones on stress. Or I don't return her calls when I know I can't perform. But last night I knew I could so I sought her out, and gave her my best yet.

But here's the bad news: after having sex, I came home and immediately looked at porn. 3 times, and masturbated all the way to an empty tank. So now I'm off the wagon again and crawling my way on the trail.

I've noticed others have had similar experiences, porn relapsing after orgasm. I know my brain's sexual pathways get lit up during the act, and stay buzzing afterwards, and I just associate that with porn, but I don't want to.

In everyone's better educated and more experienced opinions, should I do hardmode instead?  Should I recite a mantra 7 hours a day, or do a daily recall of all the events where porn destroyed my life, so I have nothing but constant hatred for it, or do all the above? I had the willpower of a spoonbender before having sex last night; afterward, it was that of a meth addicted lemming eating their own feces for a second fix.

Well, you obviously have to avoid your triggers. If sex is a trigger for you, that sucks. I kind of wonder a bit, why you had so much energy left directly after sex. Why didn't you have sex, until you had an "empty tank" from it?

I have it a lot easier, since I can only come once and then need 12 to 24 hours to even get horny again. So after sex I am sexually satisfied and ... want to do something else anyway.

Anyway, sounds you made good progress in the ED department. Congrats!

Well it takes me awhile to get recharged again as well. I wasn't even charged up when I got home (couldn't stay at her place because of work the next morning) but porn gets me aroused even in my most depleted of states. Once I got home, I don't know, I think I figured I was impervious to porn, thought I was superman, and then got my fix of kryptonite.

  I have only been trying to quit JO for less then two weeks. I would guess that because you had a somewhat good experience you wanted to reward yourself.
  I would JO when I got home after having sex! Didn't matter if  it had been good or bad. Either to prove I could cum again or just to feel good again.
  I do remember when I was younger and never had a thought about ED at all.I would after having sex with my wife, after she went to sleep.go downstairs and pop in a tape and JO again.
  Not sure if it is sex addiction or porn addiction, but that's what happened.
Right now I sure would be hitting porn, I am alone and had sex two nites ago. But my main reason for not doing so to recharge for the next time I am with my lady friend, it may be tonight or over the weekend and am sure laying off playing with myself will have a positive affect.