AlexthenotsoGreat
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I've been listening quite a bit to Peter Hitchens lately and he seems to believe quite sincerely that there is no such thing as addiction and that it is in almost every case a matter of will power. Since I consider myself somewhat of a fan of his I took his view seriously, despite that previous convictions would normally make me dismiss it offhand. Before you go crazy citing all the studies hear me out. I'm by no means decided on the issue but I have felt a clear difference in my own motivation once I stop seeing myself as an "addict". Addict implies a measure of non-control; a sense that were a slave to our genes or brain. Personally I've never found this label very helpful, and it mostly led me to self-pity. If anyone can offer an alternative way to view the word please share.
What we know of the brain is relatively unclear at this point. I've never been very impressed by so-called brain scans. Yes, we see similarities among all addicts, but ultimately if we are able to control our behavior, then addiction as a "disease" is a misnomer.
Consider that even the people who are addicted to the heaviest drugs can overcome their addiction by the exercise of will, friendship and accountability. Shouldn't this tell us something? I've been beating myself upside the head for forever trying to figure out why I have such a hard time quitting the Animal, as some people call it. Finally I had a moment of epiphany where I realized that I didn't really want to quit, that every time I relapsed it was because I "gave in", not because I couldn't handle it or that "my brain" was the culprit. I understand how viewing the process as chemical can be helpful for a start, but after a while I begin to question how far it can be stretched. Am I really supposed to believe that someone who relapses after a year or two does so because their brain is the villain? And how much "power" lies within our will as opposed to our brain chemistry?
I'm hoping this can generate some discussion. I don't want to belittle people who actually feel they have an addiction. If you are someone who genuinely believes that they're addicted I won't be the one to say you're wrong. This post is merely meant to stimulate more thought around the concept of addiction itself.
What we know of the brain is relatively unclear at this point. I've never been very impressed by so-called brain scans. Yes, we see similarities among all addicts, but ultimately if we are able to control our behavior, then addiction as a "disease" is a misnomer.
Consider that even the people who are addicted to the heaviest drugs can overcome their addiction by the exercise of will, friendship and accountability. Shouldn't this tell us something? I've been beating myself upside the head for forever trying to figure out why I have such a hard time quitting the Animal, as some people call it. Finally I had a moment of epiphany where I realized that I didn't really want to quit, that every time I relapsed it was because I "gave in", not because I couldn't handle it or that "my brain" was the culprit. I understand how viewing the process as chemical can be helpful for a start, but after a while I begin to question how far it can be stretched. Am I really supposed to believe that someone who relapses after a year or two does so because their brain is the villain? And how much "power" lies within our will as opposed to our brain chemistry?
I'm hoping this can generate some discussion. I don't want to belittle people who actually feel they have an addiction. If you are someone who genuinely believes that they're addicted I won't be the one to say you're wrong. This post is merely meant to stimulate more thought around the concept of addiction itself.