Flatline with gf. Please support me

Hello guys, i just need really your support.
I have a new gf and im on flatline its 1.5 month already. Every time i cant get errect and fail in sex I fall in desperation. I just need to know will my ED still cure if i stopped watching porn but continue having sex with a girl? How long does it take that way?

Hi Alex.

I've tried several reboots. The first time I was able to get a normal erection and have great sex after only about 30-40 days of no porn/no masturbation. The bad news is that I relapsed. The next time I tried I went without porn/masturbation for over 200 days and I didn't recover. Needless to say, I relapsed. That's why I'm here again.

We have to stop watching porn, or anything that resembles porn. We have to STOP watching porn! Having sex with your girlfriend is OK, but sometimes I see people who say they need a period of no sex to recover. Everyone is different. Having sex with your girlfriend is in effect rewiring to the the real thing. So, I don't think it's a bad thing.

I had a similar experience with my ex gf. The PMO created tons of performance issues where she asked "Am I not hot enough"? This made me devastated thinking it was her when in reality it was me. Yes we must abstain from PMO, but also I would go as far to say sex for the time being (just my opinion and I am doing the same thing for now). That is not to say not to be intimate in other ways, but it seems we must give up short term gratification for long term pleasure.

Im just super stressed and thinking of suicide.
I cant take this anymore. I want normal life. I want my health.
I want happiness. I dont know how long will i keep on doing like this.

Hey Alex.

You've just got to hang in there. I quit several years ago. I couldn't get hard or even felt like having sex with my girlfriend. After just over 30 days I recovered enough to have sex with her and it was amazing. The problem is that I relapsed and it's been much more difficult to recover this time. Everyone is different, but if you stay strong, remain positive and stay away from porn, PLEASE stay away from porn, then you will recover and you can go on to enjoy a full sex life.

If you're really having suicidal thoughts then you need to talk to someone professional. This is an addiction like many others. It's a real issue. Don't be embarrassed to talk this through with a health professional. The important thing is that although we made some bad choices in the past and we got sucked into this addiction, we've seen the error of our ways and we're on our way out of this dark hole. Sometimes, it seems impossible, but it isn't. Others have done it and we will too!

Just take it one day at a time. Before you know it you'll be at 30 days, then 60, then 90...