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Do or die

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Congratulations. But addiction shows its withdrawals. If you are new in rebooting read about withdrawals
 
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mr_redstar

Member
Thanks for the advice, I'm still going through the posts and tips. This theory is new to me, but I want to start with no porn, see how far I could go.
 
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Lero

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mr_redstar said:
Thanks for the advice, I'm still going through the posts and tips. This theory is new to me, but I want to start with no porn, see how far I could go.
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Read everything you can because knowledge is very important.
 
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mr_redstar

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Guys I need some help. Day 7 without porn, but I found it's hard to resist sexting with some girls that I added on social network while back.
What should I do?
 
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Lero

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mr_redstar said:
[size=9pt]Guys I need some help. Day 7 without porn, but I found it's hard to resist sexting with some girls that I added on social network while back.
What should I do?
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Maybe I could sound offensive by saying this but: Just stop sexting with the girl. It will feel like shit and the urge to do it will be fucking hard but endure it and go on. It will go away eventually.
 
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Kraken

Well-Known Member
Yeah I ran into that one too.  Just remember, sexting is closer to p than actually being with a woman.  It's all pixels bro. 7 days wooo!
 
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mr_redstar

Member
Day 12, no PMO.
Sadly, I fapped to an ASMR video on day 10..  :'(
Shouldn't have allowed that to happen, I will chalk that day off my calendar and carry on.

Say no to porn, including sexting, audio and erotic!!! :mad:
 
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Lero

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mr_redstar said:
Day 12, no PMO.
Sadly, I fapped to an ASMR video on day 10..  :'(
Shouldn't have allowed that to happen, I will chalk that day off my calendar and carry on.

Say no to porn, including sexting, audio and erotic!!! :mad:
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I don't even know what ASMR is but I don't want to find out. Anyway, think about the fact that you didn't PMO. It's a small victory nevertheless.
 
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mr_redstar

Member
Day 22, no porn, no PMO, Yay.
I had sex few times with my wife during this period, erection was ok but had some DE problems.
I MOed once with no Porn, and tried to avoid any fantasy.

I guess I should also do nofap, to improve DE issue.
 
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mr_redstar

Member
Day 30, no PMO.
Had few peeks at porn or sexy photos but managed to close the window quickly. Guess that's not a relapse by definition :)
Have to work harder on avoiding any porn, guess I need to block sensitive stuff on twitter (you know how much porn content is there).

I didn't experience a flat line, as sex with my partner feels better than it was before I quit porn.
I think my PIED situation got improved a lot. In the old days when I put on condom, I would easily lose erection.
Also DE problem has improved.

Will hold onto it!  :mad:
 
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mr_redstar

Member
Had strong cravings these few days.
I did peek at twitter searches or check some forums that contain erotic posts lately.

I know it's better than real deal PMO, but this would also be bad for my reward circuit in my understanding.

Can't believe adult content is everywhere on the internet these days. Even I use "Block Site" to filter out porn websites, there are still so much on twitter, etc.
But I rely heavily on twitter for daily news about trading and stocks.

Guys any suggestions?

 
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mr_redstar

Member
I had a bad day. Or I can call it a slip today.
This morning when I woke up, before getting out of bed I started to check twitter.
And with some urge, I suddenly wanted to check the few big tits girls if their profile are updated with new posts.
Then I felt this dopamine flowing in my head, and continued to browse those big tits girls' videos and pics. It's about 10 minutes before I finally managed to close the browser and get out of bed.

I guess the lesson is that after waking up, I should get out of bed and start my day immediately :)

I understand that porn is even more harmful than MO. The best is to avoid porn completely.
 
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Lero

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mr_redstar said:
Do or die said:
Congratulations for your 30 days of nofap.
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Any thoughts to avoid porn or sexy stuff on twitter?
Thanks
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I guess you have to stay away from it. If you have urges to go to Twitter and look for stuff, recognize when the urge starts and make an effort to stay away from searching for shit. I don't know Twitter almost at all but I like Youtube. Not to use it for mindlessly scrolling through novelty, I like to watch stuff there (that I'm interested in). However, it's impossible to be on Youtube and avoid triggers completely. I had to learn that, if I chose to be on Youtube, I invited triggers to into my day. After a binge, I can handle it. I look away, I don't indulge in triggers but after about a week, I can't do this anymore. Things get on fire. As much as it feels like it sucks to give up something, at the end of the day I had to ask myself: "What's your priority right now? What do you really want?" And the answer was clear: "I want to quit P addiction." "Okay, if you want to quit P addiction then what are you going to do about it?" I made quitting my no. 1 priority and I will be doing everything it takes. Fuck Youtube, Twitter and all that shit. They are not no. 1 priority for me, as much as I hate having to miss the fun.
 
Do or die

Do or die

Respected Member
mr_redstar said:
Do or die said:
Congratulations for your 30 days of nofap.
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Any thoughts to avoid porn or sexy stuff on twitter?
Thanks
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When you are in recovery don't use Twitter , instagram , Facebook. Without it use YouTube . after 10 or 20 days you able to use Twitter or other social media for your work only .
 
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