Trying to Reboot While Dating a New Girlfriend...Help...

Npg101

Member
So I?m 25, have the problem of Porn induced Ed (my dick only gets to about 75% erection and loses it during inter course frequently), and I also have delayed ejaculation (usually have to have sex twice to orgasm). I?m in a tough situation because I just started dating this girl I?m super into and it wasn?t until now that I realized I had these issues when we had sex for the first time together.

I explained to her the situation and reasoning for everything and she can?t seem to understand the whole thing. she feels as if she?s not good enough. (Which I totally understand). I haven?t watched porn and orgasmed in over a week and my biggest question I have is should I still try and continue to have sex with her even though I have the issue I?m having? I don?t ever plan on watching porn again and I?m pretty confident in being able to quit for good. I?m just in a tough situation and I don?t know the best way to go about it.

Should I not have sex with my girlfriend and quit everything completely for a while?

Thanks in advance!
 

RodRam

Member
I was in the same exact boat. Slept with a new girl I was dating and went soft. She took it rough, even though I thoroughly explained to her why it happened. If you can  get on the same page with your girl that will be your best bet. In regard to continuing having sex, I think most guys on here would recommend at least the 90 day no pmo. I would say def quit the porn and besting off now. Good luck.
 
I recommend you wait. There are many ways to be intimate without being sexual. Girls appreciate that given the stereotype that dudes go after one thing only, sex, which is often not entirely mistaken. Spend time knowing each other better, talk about everything, have fun together, take it slow. Have romantic dates without ending up in bed. In this way, your relationship will either grow and become stronger or simply end given that you simply don't work as a couple, which is not a bad outcome. If your objective is to get married and have a family, it is better to end a relationship on time and avoid a painful divorce.

All the best
 
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