hi guys, I have been porn-free for a little over a year, but have had frequent MO sessions since, which has perpetuated a lot of the negative things that I picked up from porn. I have not had an MO for a couple of weeks now, and during the last week I have been experiencing (for the first time) the good ol' flatline that I've heard so much about. Near-total lack of libido, and right now I feel almost asexual. Normally, I would be grateful, since I have no desire to jack it. However, I am in a fairly new relationship with a super-sweet girl. I like her a lot, and I want my feelings for her to grow. But right now I am just not attracted to her (or to anyone else, for that matter). I feel so guilty and ashamed, not just for the porn use, but because the very thing that I am doing to make my sex drive more healthy is causing me to not feel anything romantic or sexual for her. It's really hurting me. I have not told her what's going on, but I feel that I am acting more distant than usual. Does anybody have any advice? I know flatline is temporary, but I have no idea how long it will last and I feel so anxious about it.