I hope this works... everything's great apart from my sex drive!

thatfapguy

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So I started noFap 4 years ago after realising I had no sex drive at all. No morning wood. Only hardcore porn turned me on. I used to take a hair loss drug called Propecia and it did a number on my sex drive. I?ve battled with ED since I was 19! I?m now 31.

I did hard mode for 50 days and saw steady improvements ? after a year I felt better but never had sex as I was dealing with some other tough things in life!

Over the past few years, I have watched porn every few weeks ? it pulled me back and I found myself jerking off a lot again.

My social anxiety has gone, I?m a confident guy but sex drive is non existent.

I have forced myself to go out on dates recently as I thought this may just be performance anxiety and I?ve taken this gorgeous girl back to mine ? twice ? and both times it took me around 20 mins to get an erection and have sex for about 1 minute before giving up; that minute wasn?t even enjoyable ? my dick felt like dead weight!

I believe working too hard, drinking too much coffee, and being a little underweight is costing me too BUT, most importantly ? I need to cut out porn for good.

I haven?t watched it for 5 weeks but I?ve decided to stop jerking off too.

Current symptoms:

Difficulty getting and keeping erection
Lack of interest in sex
Weak orgasms
NEVER any morning wood or spontaneous erections ever!

Over the past few days occasionally I?ve felt my dick coming to live a little, a tiny sensation which is very welcome.

I believe I am one of those poor gits that needs a long reboot ? I just keep sabotaging myself when I start to see small improvements.

Wish me luck.


P.S. I'm going to start doing morning affirmations too as they have helped me overcome other things in my life.
 
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