limberlost
Member
Hi everyone.
About a month ago, right after getting an urge, I closed my blinds, closed my door and opened up a private browser window.
But something hit me.... instead I typed in "porn addiction" into google.
I came across the website, yourbrainonporn.com, and sure as shit, it confirmed my suspicions that porn addiction actually was a real thing..
and I was addicted.
I stopped watching porn as of that day, and it's been around 35 - 40 days now since I watched porn.
Let me tell you what has changed, and what hasn't.
First, a little back story.
I was first introduced to porn when I was in grade 7 by one of my friends who thought it was funny seeing a girl stick a cucumber up her vagina. I was 13. To give you an idea of how innocent I was then, I actually didn't know how to masturbate.
I would sit in front of my parents computer screen with an image of a naked woman. I was so aroused, all the time. It made my prepubescent sex drive go through the roof. I remember shooting basketball on my driveway, and just fantasizing for the day I could finally have sex with a pretty girl, and release this tension.
Then one day in grade 8 I finally discovered masturbation like any guy does; by just playing around. It felt... so... good.
Then it was on. I would dream of girls - real girls; but also the ones I saw on the internet. I scrolled through many, many still images.
One day in grade 9, I found out that there were videos out there; actual videos of hot girls having sex.
I would watch video after video, and record the good ones to save for later. This went on and on.
My past grade 7 lusty self would have been shocked to hear that I didn't get any sort of sexual action through high school - no girlfriend, and barely a few kisses.
By the first year of university, it was commonplace for me to find better ways to masturbate, to make it more realistic while watching porn (read; latex gloves.)
I'm sure my video count was over 1000 fully watched porn flicks. I got into watching multiple videos per session. Porn wasn't exciting anymore, it just was part of my masturbation routine.
I still hadn't lost my virginity.
One year ago, I finally lost my virginity in a shameful, embarrassing display of flacidness. I had to stroke myself and think of porn to get it up (it didn't help that the lights were off), and only managed to stay erect for a few minutes before I came early, and left her house feeling horrible.
That was the only time I've had sex.
After that experience, my sex drive has been so.. so low. I haven't tried to flirt, or initiate anything sexually since then.
Now, around one month ago, I quit porn. I have not quit masturbation, and think only of girls I know in my life when I do.
Since I quit porn, I have noticed I am looking at girls in a more ... real way, if that makes sense. I haven't acted on it really, but I am looking at girls as potential mates now.
I also don't feel inclined to masturbate quite as often at the moment.
However, I definitely still feel the need to browse porn. I resist it constantly though, cause I'm better than it.
I'm sure I screwed my brain up real bad by having porn as my sole sexual outlet all through puberty.
But all I'm thinking of now is how good real, wholesome, sex will be with a girl when I finally have the courage and motivation to get it.
Wish me luck.
About a month ago, right after getting an urge, I closed my blinds, closed my door and opened up a private browser window.
But something hit me.... instead I typed in "porn addiction" into google.
I came across the website, yourbrainonporn.com, and sure as shit, it confirmed my suspicions that porn addiction actually was a real thing..
and I was addicted.
I stopped watching porn as of that day, and it's been around 35 - 40 days now since I watched porn.
Let me tell you what has changed, and what hasn't.
First, a little back story.
I was first introduced to porn when I was in grade 7 by one of my friends who thought it was funny seeing a girl stick a cucumber up her vagina. I was 13. To give you an idea of how innocent I was then, I actually didn't know how to masturbate.
I would sit in front of my parents computer screen with an image of a naked woman. I was so aroused, all the time. It made my prepubescent sex drive go through the roof. I remember shooting basketball on my driveway, and just fantasizing for the day I could finally have sex with a pretty girl, and release this tension.
Then one day in grade 8 I finally discovered masturbation like any guy does; by just playing around. It felt... so... good.
Then it was on. I would dream of girls - real girls; but also the ones I saw on the internet. I scrolled through many, many still images.
One day in grade 9, I found out that there were videos out there; actual videos of hot girls having sex.
I would watch video after video, and record the good ones to save for later. This went on and on.
My past grade 7 lusty self would have been shocked to hear that I didn't get any sort of sexual action through high school - no girlfriend, and barely a few kisses.
By the first year of university, it was commonplace for me to find better ways to masturbate, to make it more realistic while watching porn (read; latex gloves.)
I'm sure my video count was over 1000 fully watched porn flicks. I got into watching multiple videos per session. Porn wasn't exciting anymore, it just was part of my masturbation routine.
I still hadn't lost my virginity.
One year ago, I finally lost my virginity in a shameful, embarrassing display of flacidness. I had to stroke myself and think of porn to get it up (it didn't help that the lights were off), and only managed to stay erect for a few minutes before I came early, and left her house feeling horrible.
That was the only time I've had sex.
After that experience, my sex drive has been so.. so low. I haven't tried to flirt, or initiate anything sexually since then.
Now, around one month ago, I quit porn. I have not quit masturbation, and think only of girls I know in my life when I do.
Since I quit porn, I have noticed I am looking at girls in a more ... real way, if that makes sense. I haven't acted on it really, but I am looking at girls as potential mates now.
I also don't feel inclined to masturbate quite as often at the moment.
However, I definitely still feel the need to browse porn. I resist it constantly though, cause I'm better than it.
I'm sure I screwed my brain up real bad by having porn as my sole sexual outlet all through puberty.
But all I'm thinking of now is how good real, wholesome, sex will be with a girl when I finally have the courage and motivation to get it.
Wish me luck.