It is very normal. It is a brain used to getting porn fixes twitching and being weird because it isn't getting its fix. Whether or not you had a wet dream is not important, at least in terms of a reboot... laundry is another matter. What matters is the decisions you made, and nothing was a willful attempt to look at porn, think about porn content (I assume the big butts was a porn flashback, but maybe not) or masturbate. It is generally accepted as a sign of progress.