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YoungFire

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Hi,

18 years old. Delayed ejaculation has been cured before, in 5 days. i went to weeks without porn, today i relapsed again. i've relapsed 3 times, i need to get out of this cycle, help me.
 

Gabe Deem

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@ YoungFire,

18 years old. Delayed ejaculation has been cured before, in 5 days. i went to weeks without porn, today i relapsed again. i've relapsed 3 times, i need to get out of this cycle, help me.

If it's porn induced a reboot will cure it. You need to avoid all artificial sexual stimulation for a period of time. Seeing as how you've cured it before in as short as 5 days, you may have a speedy recovery once again.

If you need to get out of the cycle, you can't keep doing the same things during the day. Switch up your routine. I suggest getting started by spending a lot of time educating yourself on the nueroscience behind porn addiction and sexual conditioning. Start with this article: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

Print it off and go to a park and read it and take notes.

Then watch all the videos on our channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaEqbNJURD6ChROqueUdNuA/videos

I also suggest watching these two videos by Gary Wilson, very informative and excellently explained:

Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction (YBOP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHHyt6z0osA

Your Brain On Porn: How Internet Porn Affects The Brain
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY

Hope this helps you break the cycle. Hope the best for you and welcome to the Nation. Much Love

 

YoungFire

Member
Thanks Gabe,


I will
Be doing this tonight, but I had sex on the same morning I masturbated and I managed to ejaculate pretty fucking easy, I mean I didn't have to think about it, it just came..

I really don't understand what it is, why am I not being affected as bad as a lot of people? I still get the urges to watch porn but why doesn't it affect me as bad?
 

Ecoclouds

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You're alot younger than most, so potentially have less neuronal connections to P. Delayed ejaculation can not only be due to a P addiction but also by desensitisation of the nerves within the penis itself.

During my reboot I can relate, after the first week I had sex with my partner and finished within 5 minutes but this does not mean I was cured incredibly fast, I put this down to hyper arousal during this time.

Just gotta push through the withdrawal symptoms and if you have sex in future be sure to be mindful of the chaser effect which comes after this.

Give it time my friend, the urges will fade it won't be a permanent thing.
 
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