is this why im not moving forward?

YoungFire

Member
guys. 40 days into my reboot now.. things are getting better, i can ejaculate during sex.. sometimes, refactory period is still a bitch i can only have sex once a day...

but every night for the last 2 weeks, i've woken up because i've been having dreams of porn. it's not even one of those dreams where i dream all night and wake up, every single time i wake up, it's because of porn, like my mind subconciously is trying to fight the dreams and waking me up because of it.

it's weird because everytime i wake up, i remember just a few seconds before my mind screaming "stop", then i wake up. and it repeats.. 5-6 times a night, it's really messing me up and making me tired. will this hinder my reboot as i keep dreaming of it? or shall i ride it out and i'l have nothing to worry about?
 

Reboot_Dude

Active Member
From what I can tell, the answer is always just to ride it out. If your brain is doing that to you then something is changing or trying to change!
 

Farmer1016

Active Member
Our dreams are a manifestation of our subconscious selves.

I would interpret your dreams as an indication that you're still struggling with stopping your consumption of P even though you've been away from it for a bit. The dreams also seem to reflect an uncertainty that you're going to be successful and a fear of failure.

If this is an accurate reflection of what is going on, you need to find a way to boost your confidence in success. Perhaps the best place to start on that is to look at how far along you've come since you got started. You've already moved 43 days toward success. Remind yourself of the old man that you left behind. Think of him in terms of the new man that you're already morphing into. Then, set your goals regarding the man you want to become through this process. Document how far you've come since you started.

That will boost your inner self to recognize your progress and strengthen your resolve to succeed. 
 
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