Lostmyfamily said:
I do not want to be anything but blunt. I hate myself. Today I looked at porn then lied about it and now I have lost the only thing that really matters in life my partner and my children. I have no dignity left. I hate myself yet I still look. I am sitting in the dark alone. It hurts. I need help. It is probably too late. What have I done?
I'm really sorry to hear this. I can only imagine the hurt.
Is it too late? Well, too late for what? To quit porn and change your life, change how you behave, change all of these habits? Never. Never never ever. Is it too late to get your family back? I have no idea on that - I have no details about your family, and even if I did, I lack clairvoyance. But, when you're stuck in a hole, there is one direction to get out, regardless of how deep you are: up. I will say that to reconcile with your family will mean starting at the beginning and learning to leave porn behind. It won't be easy, but one day at a time will get you there. I promise. Does your partner understand that porn addiction is a real problem? When people don't understand how gripping porn can be, it can seem like porn defines them. When we understand it as an addiction, we see that there is an awesome person hiding behind that addiction.
Stick around, read some threads, contribute as you feel you want to. I highly recommend checking out the other board on here for the partners of rebooters when you're ready. There are some great, warm hearted people who post there regularly.