Hey, going through a few issues, thought I'd post, this helps sometimes. I started a reboot a couple weeks ago, but I've had a few issues. I've completely cut out P, and I don't MO anymore. That is good, P is very destructive, and PMO'ing is not healthy. At first, I noticed good signs, anxiety decreased, and I noticed a little bump to my libido. I had sex with a girl about 7 days later, really into her and my erection was about a 7 out of 10. Prior to the reboot, I had a horrible ED experience, so 70 percent was a sign of improvement.
So yesterday, I met a girl and we got together, and at first I had a good erection. But then when I went to put on a condom and put it in, my erection completely disappeared. Completely. Granted, our chemistry may have been off, we were both pretty dominant, but this was pretty tragic to me. I couldn't get it back, and we just cut things short. Is this flatlining? My number one goal here is to get my libido/sexual prowness back, so flatlining is a pretty big heart break. I'm super healthy/fit, and there isn't a reason for me to have ED other than prolonged porn use and anxiety.
I did some things such as "listen" to some sexual activity (not P) and stroke myself a bit, but no porn and no seeking sexual images. What are the thoughts of the community, have you been through this? Can I hope to get strong, large erections back again?
So yesterday, I met a girl and we got together, and at first I had a good erection. But then when I went to put on a condom and put it in, my erection completely disappeared. Completely. Granted, our chemistry may have been off, we were both pretty dominant, but this was pretty tragic to me. I couldn't get it back, and we just cut things short. Is this flatlining? My number one goal here is to get my libido/sexual prowness back, so flatlining is a pretty big heart break. I'm super healthy/fit, and there isn't a reason for me to have ED other than prolonged porn use and anxiety.
I did some things such as "listen" to some sexual activity (not P) and stroke myself a bit, but no porn and no seeking sexual images. What are the thoughts of the community, have you been through this? Can I hope to get strong, large erections back again?