no morning wood, no libido, health young guy at 60 no MPO

Hello Guys, i am italian/brazilian, i speak portugese, so i dont know how to comunicate in english very well, but i will try to say my history and i need advices...i count on you !!

i always had delayed ejaculation, and i never had see it like a real problem, but, at last year i started with ED, and somes months later i lost morning woods, and after completele ED.

I am at 60 days with no MPO, i sometimes have a very weak morning wood, and many days i just dont have it.
I dont have more spontaneous erections, and i am with low libido, but i am health, My tests are normal.

these two months I hardly felt difference (((

last day i  eu urinei s?men, is this normal ????????
whats hapeening to me ?


i need help and advices.

Hang in there, buddy. This is a long process.

You may just still be in the flatline part of your recovery where you have very little libido and you may just have to wait that out. Another thing you may want to try is to start rewiring to kickstart your libido. But mostly, be patient and read all you can at yourbrainonporn.com

Any guys have any other thoughts?

Phase2 said:

Hang in there, buddy. This is a long process.

You may just still be in the flatline part of your recovery where you have very little libido and you may just have to wait that out. Another thing you may want to try is to start rewiring to kickstart your libido. But mostly, be patient and read all you can at yourbrainonporn.com

Any guys have any other thoughts?

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thank you for advice...

the last doubt, i peed semen at noon, but i didnt masturbate or had morning wood.... is it normal ? pee semen ?!? :O

Sounds like a flatline to me.  You're OK!  Don't test your dick to see if it works, Just allow the reboot to run its course and you'll get out of flatline eventually.

Perhaps google and learn more about what flatline is, it might help you feel more comfortable when you're in it.

Flatline occurs multiple times throughout a reboot, so don't expect this to be the last time you feel this way!

Pr3c1se said:

Sounds like a flatline to me.  You're OK!  Don't test your dick to see if it works, Just allow the reboot to run its course and you'll get out of flatline eventually.

Perhaps google and learn more about what flatline is, it might help you feel more comfortable when you're in it.

Flatline occurs multiple times throughout a reboot, so don't expect this to be the last time you feel this way!

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ok, i will be strong in this process, thank you ! any new i notice. thank u !

76 days now, nothing happens, i feel like i wanna die !

:X

Hang in there buddy. When I was struggling I would listen to these radio shows. It helped to hear from other guys dealing with same problems. Give it a try.

http://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-cybersex-jungle-radio-show

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PHASE2- I'm not intending to hijack ya'lls thread but you and I are very close to no PMO days.....I'm over a year as well. How's your reboot? Any major changes or milestones?

Math: you feel pretty much how I do. I posted this this morning: Tbh, part of me has given up already on ever recovering. Every morning I wake up, wondering if I will behold a rebooted morning glory or even a sliver of life. I have gone thru these flatlines before and suddenly out of nowhere had a sudden lusty month, where impotence became a swiftly fading memory. But at those times, out of a relationship. I fapped myself to satiety and then compulsively beyond to a place where I was basically chasing the orgasm dragon despite my body failing to register any more interest. But this is certainly one of the longest periods I've gone without any self-stimulation tho' it hasn't been without O due to a hit 'n' miss combo of viagra and spoffing with a semi during foreplay more by accident than design.  But this time feels different, it feels like I will never recover. I've got the best chance of a relationship I've had in years and years, since my one and only longterm finished, and now as much as I feel I'm beginning to fall in love with her I feel driven to push her away, to give her a chance of a normal, fulfilling life with true intimacy and the possibility of a family, to be carefree and not to have to deal with this inadequacy hanging around my neck like a rancid albatross.  I've struggled with addiction and mental health issues all my life and have managed to beat them for longer and longer periods in my 30s, but I think this disease of ED has been the one single factor fundamentally razing my self-confidence to the ground. It has on several occasions caused a selfdestructive relapse back into smoking, drinking and self-harm. That's how I feel right now, like telling this wonderful young woman to find herself an unbroken man, at least one who can get a flipping stiffy on viagra! I can't be doing with penis pumps and prosthetics, I've been humiliated enough. I do exercise, I do look after myself, I've had a long break from wanking, I haven't done anything to merit such a severe case of this relationship-destroying, future-destroying, self-worth-destroying  disease that makes you detest your own body and insults the one you love. I'm pretty close to just sacking it all in, the healthy lifestyle, the positive mental health management, and staying alone for rest of my life, accepting that I have this horrible random illness that doesn't even make sense what with the odd tho' increasingly infrequent month-long island of raging libido amid a sea of ED, and finding hopefully lethal consolation in the bottle. I've given my body and mind everything they need just to allow me to have a shot at normal happiness, nothing spectacular, not a career as a pornstar or a harem or being a player, and my body just gives me the V-finger ,saying 'Uh-uh, not for you , boy!' I hate sex, I hate my penis, I hate myself. 

guys, let's try giving our penis at least as much time to recover as we took to destroying it. I too am scared of sex now but PMO is not the answer. It isn't natural. No matter what happens but just staying away from PMO is making us better every day.

I'd hate to think that my penis won't be back to normal until 10+ years from now. I'll be on AARP by then!

pearland71 said:

I'd hate to think that my penis won't be back to normal until 10+ years from now. I'll be on AARP by then!

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i've been at this forum 8 mounths, everyday i read histories like "my penis doest wor, i am in flatline...." and i never read, "oh , a recovered after some mounths...  or read 1 in 1000.... this reebot doessnt work, flatline, its a name for who has pie , i dont belive anymore... 8 mounths trying this s*** nothing happpends.... i am 22yo, i am starting to decide if i go to live this way or not to live... but pls, stop sell a dream that cant be real ! fuck it

There are success stories Math.......I know it's fucking frustrating as hell. I've seen huge improvements but they sure as hell didn't happen in a few months.

One thing that I've learned thru Dialectical  Behaviour Therapy, Math, is to avoid the dangers of both catastrophising - of panicking, not just making mountains out of molehills, but also Olympus Mons out of mountains - and of black/white, either/or thinking. Both of these can make a situation seem unalterable and irredeemable. We need to be, when we can and our emotions and stress responses aren't calling the shots, detectives of the shades of grey to locate the objective truth of any given sitch and to see whether there are truly no grounds for hope. But I do indeed empathise and know myself what anguish you are in. So let's start looking at the  evidence, shall we?  First of all, have you really, genuinely had no movement, semis or once-in-a-blue-moon woodies AT ALL in the last 8 months? Nada, zilcho, squat? I know myself that tho' it feels like not enough is happening compared to other periods of libido I've experienced which felt potent and which I currently covert, I still couldn't truthfully assert that my old boy has been completely bereft of animation whatsoever. It's easy to make the good the enemy of the great, or even the mediocre the friend of the non-existent, but we're really playing for high stakes here, our future well-being and even desire to look after ourselves, be loved and have families, so we have to apply scientific rigour thru out this 'process' (god, let it be a process!)  to try and safeguard us against the suicidal mindsets which ED can give rise to at moments of failure and isolation. 

BoaRestrictor said:

One thing that I've learned thru Dialectical  Behaviour Therapy, Math, is to avoid the dangers of both catastrophising - of panicking, not just making mountains out of molehills, but also Olympus Mons out of mountains - and of black/white, either/or thinking. Both of these can make a situation seem unalterable and irredeemable. We need to be, when we can and our emotions and stress responses aren't calling the shots, detectives of the shades of grey to locate the objective truth of any given sitch and to see whether there are truly no grounds for hope. But I do indeed empathise and know myself what anguish you are in. So let's start looking at the  evidence, shall we?  First of all, have you really, genuinely had no movement, semis or once-in-a-blue-moon woodies AT ALL in the last 8 months? Nada, zilcho, squat? I know myself that tho' it feels like not enough is happening compared to other periods of libido I've experienced which felt potent and which I currently covert, I still couldn't truthfully assert that my old boy has been completely bereft of animation whatsoever. It's easy to make the good the enemy of the great, or even the mediocre the friend of the non-existent, but we're really playing for high stakes here, our future well-being and even desire to look after ourselves, be loved and have families, so we have to apply scientific rigour thru out this 'process' (god, let it be a process!)  to try and safeguard us against the suicidal mindsets which ED can give rise to at moments of failure and isolation.

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man, u are right... but , last times, i dont have holp, since that i started here, nothing has changed.... in 1 mounth , i have maybe 3 VERY WEAK morning wood, that i wake up and 5 seconds, my penis is flacid.... i dont have any libido...i dont have motivation...and i always exerciese.... eat health... etc... thats why i am starting to freak, i saw my friend, at the best time of their lifes... i always had ups and downs in life... but the last 2 years its just suffering... painful, humiliating... i lost all my confidence. i fell my penis is dead all time, i feel my head will explode any time... thats why i so negative... sorry , buti dont have for who to speak and put this out...

Well mathforum, I must tell you that my experience with not doing PMO, MO or edging has proven to be a positive experience.  I had JO since before the age of 12 and continued all through my life. Of course the Internet porn made it easier to gain access to all sorts of things. I am 66 and about two years ago I noticed some ED issues. I could get hard all the time but sometimes lost my erection before I could complete penetration. I had been using PMO many times a week. I found this site somehow and it reversed the problem. I will tell you a few times I fell off the wagon, and the problem can back right away . Give your self some more time and you should be fine barring any medical issues. Good luck.