Day 30 of NoFap - my report

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Camouflage

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I have a history of a severe delayed ejaculation and even anorgasmia (age 36). I am currently on day 30 of a hard mode reboot. I haven't masturbated for 30 days and haven't watched porn for many months. I would like to report some findings:

- I have had 4 casual sex encounters (I'm single) in this month and NoFap has certainly helped me to get an orgasm easier. Especially the first orgasm in each encounter has been much easier than before starting nofap. I still have delays with the consecutive intercourses (usually after 30-60 min of relaxing after the first climax). I am hoping that more nofap will decrease my refractory time (the time of rest needed between orgasms).

- I feel hornier now. Before nofap I didn't feel a big need to have sex, but e.g. yesterday I simply HAD to hook up with somebody (was successful too :p )

- I am not sure whether having sex hinders my reboot. I am guessing that if I wanted to reboot faster, I should stop casual sex, because it may very well be stimulating the "porn pathways" in my brain. But so far I haven't been able to do that.
 
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Rado

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Hello,

I have quite simmilar dillema.

Isn`t so, that stopping the artificial stimulation cuts the"wires" in the brain responsible for being errected only when watching P ?

I suppose (after reading of many many posts here) having sex with ral partner supports the normal pathways to sexual arrousal. Of course if you`re really enjoing a real partner (not forcing errection with M, and no P-fantsies during the whole thing).

I`m on day 37 of no PMO. After a 2-3 weeks of flatline I got extra horny. I tried to have sex without an O, and it worked for one week. After one week (arroung day 30 of no PMO) I had an orgasm with a partner (felt WOW!) and after 2 days another one. After that my libido decreased and I`m waiting to regain it. (Probably entered faltline again)
 
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Camouflage

Active Member
This is day 41 of NoFap for me. Yesterday I had sex with a girl (an old fuckbuddy). We did it three times during a 24 hour period, and I was able to orgasm each time within 10 minutes of intercourse! That is great progress for me, because when we tried it last time (before my NoFap period), I only came once in maybe 5 attempts. And even that one climax took probably 30 min of sweaty hammering.

However, I don't think that I am cured yet because of the following reasons:

- Before the first intercourse I was horny as hell and I didn't have any trouble getting an erection. But that one session would have been enough for me for the entire weekend. So my true libido is still pretty low. The girl managed to turn me on for the rounds 2 and 3 with some intense foreplay, but it wasn't as easy as it should be.

- I did have some fantasy going on in my head during the sex. I am not sure if that is normal...

- A healthy guy would probably be ready for round 2 within 30 minutes of round 1. But I needed 6 hours of rest between the rounds 1 and 2.

- For these reasons I will continue NoFap. My goal is 90 days.
 
bbkenpo

bbkenpo

Member
Camouflage said:
This is day 41 of NoFap for me. Yesterday I had sex with a girl (an old fuckbuddy). We did it three times during a 24 hour period, and I was able to orgasm each time within 10 minutes of intercourse! That is great progress for me, because when we tried it last time (before my NoFap period), I only came once in maybe 5 attempts. And even that one climax took probably 30 min of sweaty hammering.

However, I don't think that I am cured yet because of the following reasons:

- Before the first intercourse I was horny as hell and I didn't have any trouble getting an erection. But that one session would have been enough for me for the entire weekend. So my true libido is still pretty low. The girl managed to turn me on for the rounds 2 and 3 with some intense foreplay, but it wasn't as easy as it should be.

- I did have some fantasy going on in my head during the sex. I am not sure if that is normal...

- A healthy guy would probably be ready for round 2 within 30 minutes of round 1. But I needed 6 hours of rest between the rounds 1 and 2.

- For these reasons I will continue NoFap. My goal is 90 days.
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OMG I am soooo glad I read this.  I have been no fap for only like 9 days but cannot wait to have my first orgasm with a partner.  I won't believe it till it happens.  I am so tired of lasting super long and not finishing.
 
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