Anyone cured penis desensitisation?

Puggler

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Hi. I was wondering what really causes penis desensitisation and if anyone cured it succussfully with nopmo challenge. Currently i have no sensitivity in penis and it looks shrunk, white, and dead. Even when I have a boner i cant feel my dick completelly. It feels like its kind of different organ that isnt under my controll. How to get rid of this problem for once and at all? Has anyone cured it with nopmo chllenge? What causes penis desensitisation and can you explain?
 

Stevew

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Look up death grip. There are oils you can get which apparently help restore stuff... i mean manoil looks like a rip off but if you are really worried i would consider it or even just moisturizer. But to cure death grip you need to stop masturating... and when you do... do it softly.. if that doesn't work... don't do it... also i think using fabric to masturbate your penis with is a very bad idea. Maybe you do none of that... in that case well just stop masturbating.
 

Puggler

Active Member
Stevew said:
Look up death grip. There are oils you can get which apparently help restore stuff... i mean manoil looks like a rip off but if you are really worried i would consider it or even just moisturizer. But to cure death grip you need to stop masturating... and when you do... do it softly.. if that doesn't work... don't do it... also i think using fabric to masturbate your penis with is a very bad idea. Maybe you do none of that... in that case well just stop masturbating.
No problem with stopping the masturbation. How long will it take to recover penis desensitization?
 
AlexB said:
Hi. I was wondering what really causes penis desensitisation and if anyone cured it succussfully with nopmo challenge. Currently i have no sensitivity in penis and it looks shrunk, white, and dead. Even when I have a boner i cant feel my dick completelly. It feels like its kind of different organ that isnt under my controll. How to get rid of this problem for once and at all? Has anyone cured it with nopmo chllenge? What causes penis desensitisation and can you explain?
this might not be exactly what you are looking for, but in my personal experience with DE i discovered that it cannot be dealt with merely with abstination from PMO. what worked for me was the following:
1) stop mastrubating (if you didnt already) for a week or so completely
2) after that attempt to get an erection just by light brushing, then apply lube in generous amount (you can also use normal cooking oil, in fact for me it simulates the consistancy of natural vagina juices more accurately than anything else). and mastrubate with it only by a very loose stroke simularing sex speed.
3) do this a couple of times with a few days of abstinance between sessions and it should improve your sensazion pretty quickly. i got over DE problems in just a couple of weeks with this method, but it requires a somewhat working dick
 

Reboot_Dude

Active Member
I noticed increased sensitivity within a week or two. Nearly a month and half in now and I feel like I have a new dick! I'm obviously on nofap so I havebt fully explored, but in the few moments I've touched it experimentally it feels completely different, especially the head, like I don't recall it ever being like this, it's crazy! It's fuller and shinier! I used to find contact directly to the head a bit unfomfortable, I always assumed it was because I'm circumcised, turns out I was just abusing myself too much...
 

Puggler

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lumosmaxima said:
AlexB said:
Hi. I was wondering what really causes penis desensitisation and if anyone cured it succussfully with nopmo challenge. Currently i have no sensitivity in penis and it looks shrunk, white, and dead. Even when I have a boner i cant feel my dick completelly. It feels like its kind of different organ that isnt under my controll. How to get rid of this problem for once and at all? Has anyone cured it with nopmo chllenge? What causes penis desensitisation and can you explain?
this might not be exactly what you are looking for, but in my personal experience with DE i discovered that it cannot be dealt with merely with abstination from PMO. what worked for me was the following:
1) stop mastrubating (if you didnt already) for a week or so completely
2) after that attempt to get an erection just by light brushing, then apply lube in generous amount (you can also use normal cooking oil, in fact for me it simulates the consistancy of natural vagina juices more accurately than anything else). and mastrubate with it only by a very loose stroke simularing sex speed.
3) do this a couple of times with a few days of abstinance between sessions and it should improve your sensazion pretty quickly. i got over DE problems in just a couple of weeks with this method, but it requires a somewhat working dick
Thanks for the reply mate but i dont get it, if i just stop masturbating it wount cure the desensitization? I dont want to masturbate im on 70th day of nopmo so if i just apply the oil on it without masturbation will it help?
Like i said im on 70th day of nopmo i had increased sensitivity but now my dick looks like dead again
 

Camouflage

Active Member
I have been struggling with low sensitivity for about 2 years now. It was difficult for me to reach orgasm during sex. But abstaining from MO (and naturally from P) helped me. It was about day 40 of my first no PMO streak when I noticed a significant improvement. I've done multiple streaks since then, and I definitely have better sensitivity now even though I am still not as sensitive as I would like. So simple abstaining may help.
 

DonLorenzo

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I cured my penis sensitivity. When starting reboot, I didnt feel anything in vagina. Now I feel everything if I am hard. Just dont watch porn or masturbate, and have real sex when you can.
 

Puggler

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DonLorenzo said:
I cured my penis sensitivity. When starting reboot, I didnt feel anything in vagina. Now I feel everything if I am hard. Just dont watch porn or masturbate, and have real sex when you can.
It's same for me. Sex is not pleasurable for me. I dont feel anything when i put it in. I dont even have desire to have sex and i have low sensitivity like its dead
 

Camouflage

Active Member
AlexB said:
It's same for me. Sex is not pleasurable for me. I dont feel anything when i put it in. I dont even have desire to have sex and i have low sensitivity like its dead

I would aim for 90 days of no MO and then I would try to have sex again and see if I have more feeling in the actual situation. Have you ruled out physical effects like depression medication? Also I am curious, are you circumcised or not? In my case circumcision lowered my sexual pleasure quite a bit. Foreskin helps to protect the glans and keep it more sensitive. But there are some things that circumcised men can do to recover some of the lost sensitivity.
 
AlexB said:
lumosmaxima said:
AlexB said:
Hi. I was wondering what really causes penis desensitisation and if anyone cured it succussfully with nopmo challenge. Currently i have no sensitivity in penis and it looks shrunk, white, and dead. Even when I have a boner i cant feel my dick completelly. It feels like its kind of different organ that isnt under my controll. How to get rid of this problem for once and at all? Has anyone cured it with nopmo chllenge? What causes penis desensitisation and can you explain?
this might not be exactly what you are looking for, but in my personal experience with DE i discovered that it cannot be dealt with merely with abstination from PMO. what worked for me was the following:
1) stop mastrubating (if you didnt already) for a week or so completely
2) after that attempt to get an erection just by light brushing, then apply lube in generous amount (you can also use normal cooking oil, in fact for me it simulates the consistancy of natural vagina juices more accurately than anything else). and mastrubate with it only by a very loose stroke simularing sex speed.
3) do this a couple of times with a few days of abstinance between sessions and it should improve your sensazion pretty quickly. i got over DE problems in just a couple of weeks with this method, but it requires a somewhat working dick
Thanks for the reply mate but i dont get it, if i just stop masturbating it wount cure the desensitization? I dont want to masturbate im on 70th day of nopmo so if i just apply the oil on it without masturbation will it help?
Like i said im on 70th day of nopmo i had increased sensitivity but now my dick looks like dead again

i dont know if no mastrubation can help desentization or not, but i think it should. however as i didnt have the luxury of time, but wanted to have regular sex via sex pills, i did what i told you and it helped me. before that i felt nothing with a condom on, after it i enjoyed it much more. im sorry if i am confusing you :) so use my method only of full abstinance does not help your sensitivity
 

Puggler

Active Member
Camouflage said:
AlexB said:
It's same for me. Sex is not pleasurable for me. I dont feel anything when i put it in. I dont even have desire to have sex and i have low sensitivity like its dead

I would aim for 90 days of no MO and then I would try to have sex again and see if I have more feeling in the actual situation. Have you ruled out physical effects like depression medication? Also I am curious, are you circumcised or not? In my case circumcision lowered my sexual pleasure quite a bit. Foreskin helps to protect the glans and keep it more sensitive. But there are some things that circumcised men can do to recover some of the lost sensitivity.
Im not circumcised. Actually my life is really screwed up with high pressure, stresses and conflicts. I have life and healh problems so I sometimes feel deep depression but im kind of headstrong guy and i make it through all the time to get over the depressions, so can depression affect my sexual desire or potency? I cant deal with my problems in short time whicj causes depressions, so if it affects my health does it mean my libido will always stay the same?
 

Camouflage

Active Member
I'm not an expert but according to sex therapists, depression, stress and anxiety may very well affect libido and sex drive.
 
AlexB said:
DonLorenzo said:
I cured my penis sensitivity. When starting reboot, I didnt feel anything in vagina. Now I feel everything if I am hard. Just dont watch porn or masturbate, and have real sex when you can.
It's same for me. Sex is not pleasurable for me. I dont feel anything when i put it in. I dont even have desire to have sex and i have low sensitivity like its dead

This is exactly how things were for me in the weeks leading up to finding this site,
Sex not being pleasurable and having no desire is because your brain is hardwired to porn and real women just can't give you the adrenaline hit that the pixels have been giving you up till now, just remember the pixels hide pimples and spots and scars etc you should delete all that porn shit out of your life.
With regards to the desensitization and not feeling anything when putting it in, definately sounds like a bout of death grip to me, the penis has thousands of little nerve endings and you've been bashing them about for so long they're damaged badly, you need to leave it alone for a while give it a chance to heal, good luck.
 

Reboot_Dude

Active Member
I've had a weird turn since posting in this thread a while ago. The head of my penis had turned  super sensitive and felt good to touch, but  Bet the last week or so this has faded and it's gone into a very low feeling of sensitivity, almost but not quite numbness. I've also had a vastly decreased libido, although do sometimes still get night erections. Hopefully this is just an example of the reboot being non-linear?
 
I was able to get some back. Unfortunately it is about a 1-3 right now. I have been trying to ignore this problem for a bit and I really don't have any answers for me other than I think my circumcision finally put the nail in the coffin for my guy.

I don't think my issue is porn at this point. I have stayed away for months and girls get me going it's just I can't feel anything significant anymore and I just don't know what to do. I get no answers.

I just know I had much better sexual response when I was younger and now I don't. I think its partially mental. I need to feel like I need it but I have been actively suppressing the urge to find a relationship at this point because I just can't feel anything inside a woman. Oral does nothing. Hand jobs, nothing. Vaginal, nothing unless it's me on top going hard.

I can get hard as a rock and it may as well be one. I can't give up but just struggling to even feel human. I could easily find a new girlfriend I just don't see the point anymore.

 

UselessMeat

Active Member
Stevew said:
Look up death grip. There are oils you can get which apparently help restore stuff... i mean manoil looks like a rip off but if you are really worried i would consider it or even just moisturizer. But to cure death grip you need to stop masturating... and when you do... do it softly.. if that doesn't work... don't do it... also i think using fabric to masturbate your penis with is a very bad idea. Maybe you do none of that... in that case well just stop masturbating.

He's trying to quit masturbating and you're telling him to rub oil on his cock?

Really what he needs to not have sex/masturbate for several months, and touch his cock as little as possible. After that it's sensitivity should be vastly improved.
 
Hey guys,

Sorry to bring up an old thread but this was one of the better threads on sensitivity that I've managed to find. On week four of no P now, I've MO'd to sensation ALONE three times so far during this period, just about once a week. No more death grip, lots of lube and slow loose stroke. My problem is that I have next to no sensation on my shaft, but my tip is still very sensitive.

As for effect on the reboot it hasn't seemed to affect my penis life too much if any at all. Haven't had any chaser effects at all, nor am I craving P in the slightest. Spontaneous erections still occur every now and then and I do manage to get 90% hard with the slow M. Wondering what and how sensitive a normal penis should be...?
 
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