UselessMeat
Active Member
Okay, so for those of us who have been rebooting for awhile, who are in long term relationships, and began to have sex during reboot but, more often than not, struggle to maintain an erection. How do we deal with being terrible at sex? It's probably extremely unsexy and not good when we struggle to maintain an erection and lose it if we don't penetrate quickly enough and start moving. All I can really manage right now on most days is missionary; I can't do anything else or change position because it's likely I'll lose my erection. My girlfriend was a virgin and doesn't enjoy our sex. I want nothing more than to give her good sex but I fail to and I'm sure this is mostly because of my goddamn penis not working well. At first I was happy to be successful, but it's usually such a struggle to be successful and unsatisfying mentally that I can't give her good sex. I don't like the feeling of putting my girlfriend thorough misery so I can fuck her and have an orgasm while she's hoping it's over ASAP. For me, not being able to satisfy my love sexually is one of the worst parts of having ED. How do we deal with this???