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Hollaaaaa. First of all, excuse my english, I?m from Spain.
I?m a 22yo guy with a pretty common story. Started PMOing around 12-14, got a girlfriend in university, broke up, depression, PMO increase (and changing genres), almost no sexual contact in about 2.5 years, no libido? Until a few weeks ago I performed badly with a girl. I didn?t worry at first because I was really tired and drunk. However, I checked the internet out of curiosity, found YBOP and this website opened my eyes.
In a few hours I?m gonna achieve 22 days without PMO (nor MO/O). I haven?t had a really hard time, I kept my mind busy, I read a few things on YBOP, I?m exercising, eating healthy, going out... Recently I started in a new job that has given me the opportunity to get my shit together so I already got into good habits before this nofap thing. Nevertheless, I?ve seen intense cravings and the flatline could hit me hard in the following days. So I?ve decided to keep a journal in the forum.
I?d say I haven?t experience a clear trend in my reboot. I?ve suffered anxiety, especially in the first week, but it comes and goes. Same with boners, but I gotta tell you than when these come, I?m horny af, and they are 100% mostly. Also, during this third week my soldier is smaller than usually, nothing to worry according to what I?ve read.
I ended up in a soft porn channel on TV a couple of days ago and couldn?t avoid staring for a minute, but I don?t give too much importance to it. Besides, I can?t avoid fantasizing sometimes, but I?m starting to do it with a potential sexual partner.
Speaking about the benefits, I feel more energy and I?m dreaming more. This extra energy is keeping me out of my house and more socially active. I got to tell you I?m receiving attention from women, nothing has materialized yet, but I feel confident about future opportunities. So? thanks to the No PMO community.
I?m pretty happy with my progress so far BUT my main concerns are:
(1) I have no clue about how I could perform now in a sexual encounter. Last time I had sex was in 2013!! and the fail I had a few weeks ago was pretty particular because it was unexpected, with a girl a see more as a friend, drunk, tired, etc. We were laughing at it though, so it wasn?t traumatic at all. Conclusion: I don?t know what to expect.
(2) When is the flatline coming? Sometimes I feel I?m being too innocent thinking I?m gonna achieve improvements without going through a period of hell first hahaha.
Thanks for reading, feel free to give some insights, share your experience, whatever.
PD: I?m trying to quit weed as well, and I think definitively now I have more willpower. I?ve smoked just once since this I do nofap, and it was at a party. So it?s helping with this as well.
I?m a 22yo guy with a pretty common story. Started PMOing around 12-14, got a girlfriend in university, broke up, depression, PMO increase (and changing genres), almost no sexual contact in about 2.5 years, no libido? Until a few weeks ago I performed badly with a girl. I didn?t worry at first because I was really tired and drunk. However, I checked the internet out of curiosity, found YBOP and this website opened my eyes.
In a few hours I?m gonna achieve 22 days without PMO (nor MO/O). I haven?t had a really hard time, I kept my mind busy, I read a few things on YBOP, I?m exercising, eating healthy, going out... Recently I started in a new job that has given me the opportunity to get my shit together so I already got into good habits before this nofap thing. Nevertheless, I?ve seen intense cravings and the flatline could hit me hard in the following days. So I?ve decided to keep a journal in the forum.
I?d say I haven?t experience a clear trend in my reboot. I?ve suffered anxiety, especially in the first week, but it comes and goes. Same with boners, but I gotta tell you than when these come, I?m horny af, and they are 100% mostly. Also, during this third week my soldier is smaller than usually, nothing to worry according to what I?ve read.
I ended up in a soft porn channel on TV a couple of days ago and couldn?t avoid staring for a minute, but I don?t give too much importance to it. Besides, I can?t avoid fantasizing sometimes, but I?m starting to do it with a potential sexual partner.
Speaking about the benefits, I feel more energy and I?m dreaming more. This extra energy is keeping me out of my house and more socially active. I got to tell you I?m receiving attention from women, nothing has materialized yet, but I feel confident about future opportunities. So? thanks to the No PMO community.
I?m pretty happy with my progress so far BUT my main concerns are:
(1) I have no clue about how I could perform now in a sexual encounter. Last time I had sex was in 2013!! and the fail I had a few weeks ago was pretty particular because it was unexpected, with a girl a see more as a friend, drunk, tired, etc. We were laughing at it though, so it wasn?t traumatic at all. Conclusion: I don?t know what to expect.
(2) When is the flatline coming? Sometimes I feel I?m being too innocent thinking I?m gonna achieve improvements without going through a period of hell first hahaha.
Thanks for reading, feel free to give some insights, share your experience, whatever.
PD: I?m trying to quit weed as well, and I think definitively now I have more willpower. I?ve smoked just once since this I do nofap, and it was at a party. So it?s helping with this as well.