ED just came over me after a night on xtc.

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spray83

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HI,

i am male of 32 years old and i never had problems with getting it up. Now i did a date with a girl an xtc and in that night could not get it up. And after that i still had problems.

I dont know whats wrong. I am in general healthy and when i watch porn nothings seems to happen in my mind.

i think last week i watch some porn and i did get a boner, but after that nothing happend.

I get some morning errections, and i believe in the night i also get errection in me REM sleep .

But when i try to play arround with my dick and try to fantasise nothing happens. When i whatch porn now nothing happens.

I have searching dutch forums about ED, and they are talking about pills Viagra Cialis etc etc,,,,but i stronlgy believe the problem is something in my mind. IN these dutch forums i found Yourbrainonporn.com.

Yes i have to admit i have been a user of porn since i cant remember, i never thought it was a problem. But daily matrubatiing , and even also at work putting on porn on my cell phone and jurking off..

Now like 5 weeks ago i had a date with a finnish girl we smoked weed and drinking...Had no problems with getting it up multiple times.

But now i had a date with girl that we done xtc , and in the night of xtc my dick did not work. And way after the effects of xtc i still having problems with Errection..

THis is all verry scary and new for me, it slike in one go my dick does not work any more. i have been searching for so much infromation on the internet.

NOw i know about Porn Induced ED, i have stopped with porn and installed K9 Filter on my laptop. It has shaken me up completly and i am verry scared my dick wil never work ever again.
Monday i go to the hostpital for the UROLOGIST, and i have already done a blood test they are going to test for Testtosterone.

If you have tips suggestions, encourgement or anything you would like to say please speak up .



 
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Numez

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what is xtc???

in severe cases of porn addiction you have PIED even when you watch porn. first you cant get it up with real girl but then if you keep PMOing, after some time you are not able to get it up even with porn.

its good thing to check yourself as it may be something physically wrong with you, especially if xtc means ecstasy. you drinking smoking doing drugs watching porn, just asking for some shit to come up so dont be surprised :)
 
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spray83

Member
yes xtc is ectasy.

i already told in the last post, i do have some morning erections. so this means no fysical disfunction
 
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Numez

Guest
by physical i meant your ED may not be porn related. its good to check yourself as you did.

if everything is alright then just stop porn use. process can last from 2 days to 2 years so be ready and patient. i personally managed to go 10 months free and i was not fully recovered, other guys take 9 months just to be able to have sex again... lots of different examples, from 2 days to 2 years is the most accurate prediction.

dont be scared  ;D i was very suicidal in your situation but now that you know its all because of porn now you can relax and be happy about tomorrow.
 
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spray83

Member
Yes,

I have done already a lot of learning about this.

What i have taken action already is:

-told the girl i was with
-got a bloodtest for Testosterone
-Go to Urologist monday
-Get appointment met Sexalogist
-Got 3 diffferent kinds of libido pills in house havent tried them yet.
- watch the your brain on porn
-monitor my morning erections
-stopped mastrubating
-stopped wathcing porn and "testing"with porn see if my dick works.
- Installed K9 webfilter that is free

SO i am going hard mode. No Porn, No mastrubating, no notthingggg. It has scared the shit out of me this problem. I need to fix this asap .And i really hope its porn induced related.

 
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Numez

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hahah scary but you will laugh at it  ;D i just remember this happening to myself and its funny i dont laugh at you, it can feel really fucked up

good action steps. only libido pills are not be required and cant help if you are having problems with porn addiction and PIED. going hard mode is all you need.

you can reintroduce O (during sex) once per week after 3 months of going hard. cuddling, kissing, hugging, touching... helps in rewiring and you can do it from day 0. even slow sex like karezza, without O is helpful.

you made a good decision. good luck  8)
 
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spray83

Member
THX,

I already started harde mode...


But lets start the counter from today on this forum.

I wil update and keep the progress whats happening in this THREAD>

 
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spray83

Member
OK today i woke up with a like 60 procent errection, but i feel no sex drive or libido . I think i am in the flatine.

Keep going at it , and at 3 oclock i go to Urologist just 2 rule out anything physical.

Keep you updated my friends.

 
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spray83

Member
ok went to the urologist today he could not find anything psyical wrong with me.

Have to wait for the results from the Bloodtest.

on to day 2 with no porn.
 
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spray83

Member
how i feel:

hmmm my dick has no response, and i feel no sexdrive and i did visit a girlfriend who has big tits..

i did look at it but no arrousel happend in my mind..

think i am flatlining...

on to day 3 !
 
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spray83

Member
got some input from a dutch ed forum

they telling me my dopamine receptors are overloaded because of the porn and xtc.

makes kind of sense because i did watch porn like 3 weeks ago got a errection and after that went back to the flatine again.

 
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spray83

Member
day 4

depressed depressed depressed.

could not even go out for the interview for a nice job.had to cancel and reschdedule
 
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BailHope

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Don't worry, the depression will pass. Make sure to fill your day with meaningful activities, get out of your house, don't get bored, keep busy, ...

What always helps me to fight depression is to clean my house. For some reason, it also feels like my soul is being cleansed at the same time!
 
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